Bmammom,
I totally feel your pain. I was banded 8/12/10 and had lost 26lbs pre-op. I immediately lost about 13lbs after being banded. Then bandster hell set in and I struggled just to not gain anything back. I had 3 fills within 90 days post-op and only began to feel slight restriction with my 3rd fill. I have an 11cc band and was at 8cc at my 3rd fill. I began to panic, and felt like I would be the only person who this surgery would not work for. I had a .75cc fill on Wednesday and I feel like a new person. For the first time in my life, I'm not hungry. Don't give up, you will get there. I was hopeless a week ago, and today I am so excited. Good luck!