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ouroborous

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  1. It's important to remember that every surgery carries risks, and this surgery is no exception. However, as far as I can tell, in the array of WLS available, sleeve is one of the safest. I know, that seems weird; they're cutting your stomach in half! But remember that scar tissue and a reduced stomach size is something your body can deal with; it's a "natural" result of -- say -- an injury. On the other hand, cutting off your digestive tract and rerouting it around your stomach (gastric bypass) or implanting an artificial item in your body (lap band) are NOT things that your body has natural healing mechanisms to deal with, and these two surgeries (which are, IIRC, the most popular alternatives to the sleeve) seem very likely to cause lifelong complications. With the sleeve, once you're past the first three months (to be conservative; for most, it's past the first month) you're pretty much out of the woods. There are exceptions and horror stories, of course, but again -- those exist with EVERY surgery. If you have a good, competent doctor and supporting team (how many people know that one of the most important members of your surgical team is your anesthesiologist? And yet, nobody ever thinks to check up on THEM...), and if you follow the doctor's pre- and post-op advice to the letter, your chances of successful recovery (IE, no complications) are in the 95%+ range. And your chances of losing a TON of weight and keeping it off are extremely high (I don't remember; it's something like 75% or more... probably higher but those statistics are always conservative). When you compare those (very good) numbers against the (very bad) numbers for weight loss "the old fashioned way" (diet and exercise), and when you remember that unlike the surgery, obesity will almost certainly kill you (not to mention making your quality of life horrible in the meantime), well... you have to make up your own mind, but when I did the math, it was far more dangerous NOT to get the surgery. It's still a scary prospect -- any major surgery is. But you have to be realistic about the outcomes, and the realistic outcome from sleeve surgery is, frankly, very, very positive.
  2. It's not the losing that's hard. It's the keeping it off. Studies show that, without surgical intervention (ie, the sleeve), only about 5% of people who lose weight through dieting and exercising alone are able to keep it off for more than a year. So, if you're confident that you'll be one of the 1 in 20 who manages to switch to a lifetime of dedication* to diet and exercise, good for you -- you should skip the sleeve! But if you're like the remaining 95% of us, who would have struggled and yo-yo'ed with weight, shaming ourselves and harming our bodies until we likely died early of an obesity-related condition, I suggest you reconsider. The sleeve is not trivial, but it's still a very, very good weight loss surgery. *Because it DOES take a lifetime. You can't just do it until you lose the weight, and then stop. You can't ever take your foot off the accelerator. Every single moment of every single day, for the rest of your life, you will have to focus on diet and exercise. And let's be honest, if you're in a situation where you're heavy enough to consider WLS, you haven't had much success with that in the past. That's not intended to be an insult -- I was in exactly the same boat, as were almost all of the people here. It's just basic facts; if you really, truly, honestly believe that you'll win the lottery, and magically change your entire personality and eating habits and keep the changes for the rest of your life, then you should absolutely skip the surgery. But as someone in the community you asked for advice, I have to tell you the same thing I tell everyone; while it's fun to fantasize about what would you do if you won the weight loss lottery, I wouldn't cash in your 401k (so to speak) just yet.
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    lizzi619

    This is an amazing change; you've made such tremendous progress! Not only are you much slimmer than your "before" pictures, but you look younger, too -- isn't it weird how that works? I know that most people seem to drop 5-10 years when they drop the weight, and you're no exception. Keep up the great work!
  4. You won't go bald. It'll grow back. There's really nothing you can do to stop it or slow it down, aside from taking care of your overall health. That's about all you can say... Of course, you COULD take a page from my book and shave your head. I didn't notice any loss at all
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    m109r2 blacked Out 1

    From the album: Geeky

    This is the next bike I'm gonna buy. It's muuuuuuch faster than my current bike (it's like, crazy-fast). Plus it looks sexxxxy... I should be able to get this by my birthday if I don't mind breaking the bank and paying cash. What' $15 grand between friends?
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    m109r2 blacked Out 1

    Oh, in case you're wondering, that's a slightly tweaked Suzuki M109R2. No, it's not a Harley; I don't ride crappy bikes... I ride GOOD bikes. And yes, it sounds bad-ass, not like a putt-putt lawn mower.
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    Geeky

    Just random geeky sleeve-related stuff.
  8. Holy crap; I'm getting a six pack! Not beer, but a belly! Underneath the last remaining fat and the loose skin (I know, TMI!) there's definitely a solid center ridge of muscle forming. Once I get that tummy tuck it should be impressive!

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    1 Month!

    The energy gain was startling for me, too. I've been a lifelong obese/sedentary person, and within days after the surgery I felt like someone had hooked an IV drip full of caffeine into my veins. I HAD to keep walking (around the living room, around the block, around the neighborhood) just to burn off some of that extra energy! Now, at 2 years out (almost) it's become the new normal, but I remember how amazingly full of energy I felt at first! Congratulations on your first month out from surgery!
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    I'm Struggling With My Choice.......

    The first month is the hardest, and buyer's remorse during this time period is very, very common. You just have to keep reminding yourself that the goal is very much worth it, and keep doing the things that you know are right -- eat healthy foods that the doctor recommends, sip, sip sip water as much as you can, and walk as much as you can -- and keep your eyes on the prize. It will get better... much, much, much better... even better than before the surgery. Trust us on that
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    Whats The Average Weightloss For A Woman After Vsg?

    The statistics still show 60-70% EWL as the median. I wouldn't focus on pounds lost or pounds in the first month or whatever, since that varies wildly from person to person (a person with more to lose will lose more, at first, plus Water weight loss and gain can COMPLETELY muck up the weight loss curve). Focus on overall health and well-being. EWL means "excess weight loss" -- weight above a "normal" BMI. The implication of this is that most obese people who get the sleeve do not ever reach a technically "normal" BMI. That being said, "slightly overweight" (again, technically, according to the BMI charts) is vastly, vastly better (in both medical and psychological terms) than "grossly obese," the so-called "average American" is trending past "overweight" and into the "obese" or "morbidly obese" category (meaning: you'll likely be thinner than most of your peers), and it IS possible to get to a normal BMI post-sleeve, it's just that unlike the first part of the weight loss -- which seems effortless and almost "cheating" -- getting rid of that last 20 pounds (or whatever it is for you that takes you into the "normal" weight range) is a lot of work and requires dedication. Long answer to a short question, but I think it's good to have realistic expectations.
  12. So, I may be traveling for work to Austin for a software developer's conference near the end of April. If so, I'm going to be living off strange food, in a place with strange exercise facilities, trying to make it as a sleever. Anyone got any tips?

  13. Hmm, just did some research on creatine (which I take to improve my workouts), and it appears that the supplements may have been making me a little dehydrated. Good to know -- I'm upping my water intake!

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    Me torso

    From the album: Ch-ch-ch-changes!

    Not a great photo, but it shows that my upper body is starting to really show all the gym time I'm packing in. I obviously didn't show my midsection, which is still my most troublesome area; although I don't have a giant gut anymore, the loose skin is unappealing. Tummy tuck, here I come... One day when I have the courage I'll post my shirtless "before" photo. It takes the terms "man boobs" and "enormous gut" to a whole new level...
  15. As long as what you're choking on/throwing up doesn't look like blood (red or brown and tarry) or pure bile (bright yellow), I wouldn't call 911 just yet. Of course, as always, talk to your doctor. Note that significant nighttime reflux is also a symptom of sleep apnea, which is something that heavier people tend to also have problems with. sleeping elevated can help with reflux, too -- put a few pillows under your back, sleep in an easy chair, or buy a bed wedge (or if you're rich, get a Kraftmatic adjustable bed!)
  16. So I'm hoping that yoga can counteract some of the crunchiness I'm noticing lately, which I assume is mostly side effects from all the gym time I'm putting in. I'm happy for all the extra muscle mass and bulk (all those muscles burn calories and help me lose fat, too!) but I don't want it to be at the expense of flexibility and overall comfort. I think balance (between grace and power) is the key to a long, healthy life...

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    Sex?!?!?!?! Omg Someone Help Me?!

    As someone who's been (in the past) a "boy toy" I would say that I resent this discussion but.... nah. I don't
  18. Hard workout at the gym, but solid. Most of the core muscle groups (back/abs/quads & glutes/shoulders/plus cardio) and I have that tired, warm, slightly loopy endorphin high feeling. I'm going to be sore tomorrow though... I could definitely use a hot bath & or a massage. Sadly, I have no masseuse and guys don't take baths ;)

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    Alcohol After 6 Weeks Out?

    Alcohol can irritate the sleeve scar and inhibit healing. Even long post-op, the alcohol can cause problems with the scar. It's best to keep it to a bare minimum. And yes, the metabolic differences of alcohol post-op are almost entirely due to a lower BMI (there are some concerns with increased pancreatic load during the active loss phase). I went from being able to have... too much alcohol without noticing it much, to being pretty much a lightweight. Since it's all just empty calories and is really bad for you, I don't see a great reason to drink (you can have just as much fun without it as with it, and if you don't make a big deal about it, nobody will even notice or care that you're drinking iced teas instead of Long Island iced teas). Obviously, to each their own, but PLEASE be aware of the "lightweight" effect; I've heard of sleevers getting DUI's or worse due to not realizing just how dramatically their tolerance had changed. All that being said: drinking alcohol at only six weeks out is very foolish; I'd wait at LEAST six months. Ultimately, however, it's your body and your risk to take.
  20. I did a beginners yoga class today. I thought I was strong -- I'm doing squats with almost 300 pounds on the bar -- but wow! My legs were a-wobblin' in some of those poses! Good exercise, and good for my balance and conditioning!

  21. I wasn't sure whether or not to post this as a success story, but here's a (cropped, bad) photo of me as of today. You can see that I'm definitely bulking up, but you can also see where I still have a LONG way to go fat-wise, and a lot of loose skin... Sorry for the bad image quality, but it's off the cuff, and I really didn't want to get into the horrorshow that is my tummy right now -- just a horrible mess of loose skin!
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    Success Story...?

    Well it's hard to work up the desire to hit the gym when it doesn't feel like it makes any difference, ya know? It wasn't until I was 100 plus pounds down that I started really being able to see the difference and enjoy it; and that's when I started LIKING the gym. Well, maybe not liking the gym, but liking the results
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    Success Story...?

    Howdy, fellow rain city sleever! At least during the long, gray rainy winters up here, going to the gym gives us something to do when it's gloomy outside, right? And then during Seattle's epic "six weeks of summer" we get to go outside and show it off!
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    Success Story...?

    Thank you! I work out a lot (like, every day!) so I appreciate any positive feedback I can get!
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    Success Story...?

    Oh, and I should say (to whoever the "anonymous" reply is) -- thank you!

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