Hey, don't worry sometimes they know what is best and sometimes you will know. I would like to say that my husband knows I like a good drink once in a while and he ran out and got me the Skinny Girl Margarita, there is also a drink called the Skinny Bitch, Google them and they rock. I don't do any with the soad, but my husband found diet cola syrup so no carbonation and that had worked great. Good luck