Alright Trisha! I have just gone through all that, too. Had my surgery Dec. 29, 09. First fill was Feb. 1st and am going for my second fill March 1st. You will do so well, I had never had any surgeries, but it went just fine. Take your nausea and pain meds and you will get through. You will be sore for a while but learn to just go easy and let yourself heal before getting too active again. It's amazing how fast the days go by and you adjust to everything new happening to you. I wish you the very best and am very excited for you. showard