First, I have enjoyed reading all the messages and find them informative. I have been struggling with my weight for the last 15 years and don't think there has been a day that I don't wish I had more will power. To be honest,it bothers me that I can't seem to be able to just diet and lose the weight. I just yo yo back and forth. Will someone kinda of give me an idea of what to expect, the restrictions after the surgery, are there foods that should never be eaten etc. Those that have had the surgery, are there any bad side effects. A woman where I work had the gastric bypass and was constantly vomiting or running to the bathroom with loose stools etc. I plan to attend Dr Malley.s seminar in August but thought I would like to hear from people who have actually "walked the walk" so to speak.