I was banded on 9/21 and also experience pain that drew me to tears. My initial pain was so severe I was unable to walk as the doctor had instructed. I needed help with every movement I made, sitting up, lying down, rolling over, etc. After two days of unbearable pain I called my surgeon who then prescribed me a stronger pain killer. At about 5 days out I was finally able to get out of bed on my own. I wasn't pain free until about 16 days out (although after about 10 days it was mostly a sore feeling).
1) If the pain is that bad, get better medication.
2) Ice packs really do help temporarily.
3) Keep up on the pain meds, once you get behind on the pain, it's a struggle to get ahead of it again.
4) GOOD LUCK! Send me a message if you've got any questions I can help you with!