I am right there with you!!!! I live in Raymond, Maine and I am scheduled to be banded on Sept 8th by Dr. Renee Wolfe! I have only told my hubby, kids, mother and sister. I know what you mean about non supportive people. It is a very sensative time in your life and the less negativity the better. have you been doing OK on the 2 week pre-op diet? Have you had your pre-admission apt yet? My e-mail is simplydawnc@aol.com if you want to chat more. Do you plan on attending the post-op support groups at Andover St? I was thinking of going after my surgery. I hope to chat with you soon!