I went Monday to my "Information Class" for weight loss surgery. It was informative, and I was told that the first time you mention weightloss surgery to your doctor, is the starting point for your 10% weight loss for pre-surgery. I don't know if I believe that having learned from this website that it begins at the orientation. I know I lose a lot of weight when I first diet, and I don't want to lose that momentum if it means getting the surgery sooner than later. I do have a co-morbidity, sleep apnea, does anyone know if that affects the amount of weight you need to lose? Either way, I'm excited to be on the road, having taken my first step. My doctor referred me to the orientation class, and as far as I know, I'm all set. I'm nervous and excited, it's a little anti-climactic as my husband is suffering from a pinched nerve and is hard to be around. I feel sorry he's in pain, I want his support, but he's really not able to be there for me right now. I'm doing all I can to be understanding, but he's making feel like I can't do anything right. This is not helping with my self-esteem. It's hard to keep positive things in site with all the negativity I'm getting from him. Has anyone here experienced this problem?