Thank you guys so much for all of your definately appreciated advice and i am definately going to look into all of my options. Like i have said the trip to mexico actually scares the crap outta me..but i have heard so many good things about specific doctors there..and honestly the fear of dying really outweights some of my other fears about location. i am 29 and 368..i have 3 children and want to have a long healthy life with them. It is definately a case of rolling the dice. In the same sence im doing the same sitting here in the us not being able to afford some of these high unimaginable prices here where i live. i know the decision should not be based on price but 7 thousand is alot more obtainable than 21 thousand. Thanks again. i just signed up here the other day and i am so happy that there is a group of people here who have had the same struggle as me.