ThinAli

Ok so I know I need to do this but being a food addict it is hard to think I will never be able to eat like I once did when i really liked something. Now I know that is why I am fat but was anyone else scared like I am. :thumbup: I have neer had a major surgery so that adds into my trepidation. It would really help to know others felt this same way and how you dealt with these thoughts! I get banded on Monday the 27th. I have no doubt that this will be the best decision of my life but I am very worried. I am worried that I will look like a freak when I am out eatting (eventually) because I don't eat as much as others. I am not married so eventually dating will come into play and that of course worries me. I guess I am making a big deal and thinking that other people are going to be playing so much attention to what I eat. Any advice?

Thank You it makes me feel better to know that you felt the same! Ali

How funny is it I posted almost the same exact thing as you did! I so understand your thoughts and second guessing. I am battling that right now as well. I am sure you will agree that you know this will be the best decision you ever made but it is getting through this part. Yikes it is totally scary! Hopefully will both get some good advice! Alison