I have been banded since last July and will be filing for a divorce this week. My husband didn't say he was against the surgery but since it has been a battle. But I think for me is now that I have the self esteem that I was lacking now he can't handle it. But I will say there were issues before but I think the 75lbs lost was the last straw for him. Guess it just shows some of his insecurities.