kslessar
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Decided I would have my morning coffee by partaking in the coffee shake. I'm hoping i tried the one i'm going to least like first, i find the coffee one horrid! :biggrin: Fingers crossed for lunchtime!
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Hi Everyone, Congrats on quitting smoking illumination lady, that's fantastic :tongue2: Well, I'm 3 weeks away from surgery and I had my last appt at the surgeon's office today before the big day. I start my liquid diet tomorrow! I'm super excited I'm also getting more anxious as the days go by. I'm a huge worry wart by nature and i'm getting a little nervous about the surgery. Don't get me wrong, I still want it done, I'm just being silly I guess. So at my surgeon's office, I had the options of the following shake flavours: chocolate, strawberry, vanilla, coffee, chicken soup and mixed vegie soup. The office lady there gave me samples of each to take home to try before I buy the rest of my three week supply. I thought that was pretty cool, try before buying. I'll let you know how they taste for me. Everyone's tastes are different though :wink2: In preparation for the surgery I quit smoking in September. Haven't looked back on that one. I've purchased some little containers for the mushy stage so I can make one big lot of food and freeze it. I'll have to look into a multi-vitamin. I found out today I have to take 6 fish oil tablets a day before the surgery. A bit excessive, but it's to help tissue repair after the surgery. Good luck to all with their upcoming surgery and I enjoy reading all our stories.
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Bren, I'm excited about heels also. :thumbup: It has been so long.... That has been one of the things which has definately contributed to me feeling less feminine. From reading other posts, beer is apparently out for most bandsters. This makes me sad, I love beer. :eek: But, if I was going to stop getting the band because I love beer too much, obviously i wouldn't be ready for the lifestyle change. I must admit though, I'm going to try to fit in a couple of beer sessions before the liquid diet. I've only got a week and a bit... better get crackin'! P.S. I'm not an alcoholic, us Aussies love beer :tt1:
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Hey Everyone, Being banded December the 4th. So excited. I'm really happy to have these forums where I can chat to people who are going through the same thing. Illuminationlady, I have just quit smoking after having smoked over a decade. I tried Patches, nicotine chewing gum, little nicotine things like mints, cold turkey, you name it over the last couple of years. I mentioned on my facebook I was trying to quit and one of my friends piped up and told me to read 'Alan Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking'. I read the book and I haven't smoked since. If you are going to read the book, and I know this sounds stupid, stop using the patches and continue to smoke until he asks you to stop in the book, you will see why. To all the other's who have posted, I look forward to sharing my journey with you all :thumbup:
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Hi,
Thanks for the add. Just read your 'About Me' section. Sounds like you are doing this for similar reasons as me, although really I imagine most of us are. While I don't have children yet, I want to try to in the near future and I wan't to be as healthy as I can for them. Both as a role model and also so it doesn't hinder any activities I want to complete with them, or for my weight to cut my life short.
How old are your children? Boys/Girls?
I just went and visited Bucktober's profile and MAN has he done well. Like you, I have lost the weight only to gain it all back again. While this may sound weird, I think I felt much worse about myself after I lost it all and then gained it back then when I had just been overweight forever. Even more suprising, most of it came back on without it even registering I was really gaining. How STUPID?!
If you would like a sounding board, feel free to drop a note on my profile. While I may seem to talk a lot, I'm a good listener too!
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December 2009 Bandsters
kslessar replied to kslessar's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Hi December Bandsters!!! I'm so excited that some people replied. The first time I posted was a bit too soon, but it's great to have some people in the same month- some even on the same day to talk to now! :frown: I'm going to the surgeon on the 16th this month for my last appointment before the surgery. On one hand I can't wait to be out of that theatre and start to live life as a bandster. On the other hand, i'm absolutely crapping my pants... (sorry if that's TMI) The thought of the liquid diet and mushy diet doesn't scare or disgust me. I know that will only last for 6 weeks and in reality that isn't a whole lot of time. I like the foods i've heard we're allowed to eat (or rather drink) so far anyway. Also, if i'm not willing to persist with the liquid/mushy diet - why would I think I would want to persist with the life change the band entails? I'm scared of the surgery, and I'm sure most bandsters go thru this pre-operation. I know i'll be fine, I'm just a great big HUGE worry wart. :thumbup: I'm super happy that I have been given this life changing opportunity at such a young age. I'm proud of my decision to have surgery because God knows I have tried EVERYTHING else. This time next year, I will be married (I will be on my honeymoon actually). :scared2: My fiance and I are getting married on October the 30th next year. While I'm not sure if I will be at my goal weight, I know I'll be a lot closer than I am now. I'm also super excited because after we get married, we will be able to try for a baby. I can't wait to be a Mum. I can't wait to fall pregnant and not worry about people being confused and not wanting to ask me if I am. Also, I'm excited about the prospect of having a Baby Belly. Not a bit of baby in the centre and a decent slab of weight surrounding it. I'm actually glad to be doing it this time of year, I know I usually gain a couple of kgs over the holidays. No chance this year. Hehehe. Where is everybody from? I live in Victoria, Australia. -
December 2009 Bandsters
kslessar replied to kslessar's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Hey all, Just thought I would reply to bring this up again to search for people being banded next month. Cheers, Kasey :Yawn: -
Getting Banded 12-4-09, New to this site, Looking for some advice
kslessar replied to NurseRachel's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Hi Rachel, I'm getting banded the same day as you! I'm also feeling excited/anxious. In regard to telling people, it is completely up to you and how you feel. I have told most people and have only had 2-3 negative responses. 2 saying that I didn't need it, because i'm not that 'BIG'. These two people have never tried to lose weight in their life. So I just said it's my decision and then ignored them. The third person is one of my closest friends and she was worried for my health as she knew someone that had a bad experience. She has come around now that I have explained it more. I'm so proud to have made the decision to have the WLS, and i'm happy to tell people. I have a good friend who is getting it done in Feb 2010, she isn't telling anyone, that's her choice though. -
36lb loss is a great loss, and while you may not see it yet, it's great others are complimenting you. I liken the mind catching up to the loss like the mind catching up to your hunger. As we know, it takes 20 mins for the mind to register you're full. It takes a lot longer for your mind to register the weight loss, but hang in there... it will happen
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I think you should be extremely proud about achieving the loss you have! While the past is the past, I think it is good to remember where you came from because that is part of what helps shape the person you are today. I don't believe that people should hide the person they were away simply because they are ashamed of who that person was. The person that you were decided to become the person you are today... give them credit where it's worth. That person may have been unhappy and over-induldged and made some bad decisions, but so does everyone whether they are skinny or not. People that are at their goal weight or close to should be able to share their story with others they wish too without any embarrassment. WE chose to help ourselves, WE get the credit! Our stories may help others to take a step in the right direction like we have :smile2:
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No worries! I wish you luck with your future appointments and I think if you can prove your history, you will be fine. Talk through your concerns with your surgeon and tell him how it's making you feel about the possibility of not being able to get the band. I sympathise with you as I thought I may not be able to get the band due to not having any co-morbidities. Due to anxiety issues, I am also on anti-depressants and I can only imagine the worry you are feeling now. I think you have done a great job losing the weight that you have. I am sure there are many people that have done the same as you and ended up being banded. Try not to stress too much :wub:
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Umystifyme, I would highly recommend that you talk to your surgeon, (and gp, if necessary) about proving your history before you try anything else. To be honest Jollygreen, i feel this is a very negative recommendation and could end up having more ramifications for Umystifyme than needed. What if her surgeon doesn't just take it that she is desperate to have the band? Saying that you have taken diuretics and been throwing up is a lot more serious than purposely not losing weight to get the band. What if they think she isn't in the right mental state to have the band?
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Hey Kittkat,
I know it might be tough, but just think, you're on the road to saving your life, it's bound to be hard. Every time you think of food, think of how many years more you get for your hard work. Think of how many more fun times you can have with your friends and family. Also, think of how many clothes shops you can go into and buy something off the rack
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Any Regrets After Lap Band?
kslessar replied to sammy3552's topic in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story
Because you're body is healing from the operation, most patients are on a predominantly liquid diet for two weeks after their operation. Following the 2 week liquid diet, you have a two week diet of vitamised food (processed mushy food). Also from what people have said, even though you have not had a 'fill' you still feel restriction. After the operation, patients are advised to walk a bit to relieve the gas also. I believe all these things help you to lose an amount of weight post operation before your fill. Hope this helps -
Hey There,
How's it all going? Hoping you have less discomfort and pain
You would be almost trying to get back onto normal foods now? If not, you wouldn't be far away!
I have some good news, I have a surgery date. December 4, 2009. It's a bit far off due to the insurance, but i''m still so excited.
Hope to hear from you soon
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Hey Kittkat,
Good to hear the news about the seminar and you're getting ready to get the procedure done. I have some fantastic news... my surgeon has approved me and I have a surgery date!! Woo-hoo! I'm so excited. I'm getting banded on the 4th December. There's a bit of time to wait, because of my health insurance, but I'm so glad I'm at this stage. It was such a relief to hear the words that I can have it done.
Let me know how you go with your dates, fingers crossed you get it as soon as you want it
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Hello Everyone, I believe I may have experienced almost the best day in my life so far. I have been accepted for lap band surgery and I have a date which the surgery will take place. Since I decided I definately wanted to have the surgery a couple of months back, I must have subconsciously been holding my breath in because today I feel like i've started breathing again. The relief is indescribable. While I thought the probability of me not being accepted was small, I was still quite worried. One thing I contemplated is that I will be completing the mushy food stage over Christmas. While this doesn't worry me, I do find it hilarious. It will be funny to see my family's reaction. They are all SUPER supportive, but it will still be funny. :sad: While the surgery date is still a little while off, I am happy because it gives me some more time to read up on other's stories and become mentally prepared. I'm hoping to bypass the stage of grieving food. We have our wedding in October, 2010 people, I DO NOT have time to grieve something that has helped cause me to be the person I am today! Now i've updated, i'm off to finish preparing dinner. Curried chicken and rice. YUM :thumbup:
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Hello Everyone, I believe I may have experienced almost the best day in my life so far. I have been accepted for lap band surgery and I have a date which the surgery will take place. Since I decided I definately wanted to have the surgery a couple of months back, I must have subconsciously been holding my breath in because today I feel like i've started breathing again. The relief is indescribable. While I thought the probability of me not being accepted was small, I was still quite worried. One thing I contemplated is that I will be completing the mushy food stage over Christmas. While this doesn't worry me, I do find it hilarious. It will be funny to see my family's reaction. They are all SUPER supportive, but it will still be funny. :laugh: While the surgery date is still a little while off, I am happy because it gives me some more time to read up on other's stories and become mentally prepared. I'm hoping to bypass the stage of grieving food. We have our wedding in October, 2010 people, I DO NOT have time to grieve something that has helped cause me to be the person I am today! Now i've updated, i'm off to finish preparing dinner. Curried chicken and rice. YUM :laugh:
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Hey,
I've only just come back on to your profile to see your reply! Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you! I'm sorry to hear about your husband, has he calmed down or does he still want the divorce? I hope your pain has lessend from the op- which i gues it would have, it's been a while now
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Hello There,
Just a quick message to see how you're doing, though I don't expect a reply straight away. Hope all went well and you're not having too many post op troubles
Pretty soon the flab will be melting off sweetie!
Hope you're feeling positive and look forward to hearing from you!
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Hey,
Not long till you're banded! How exciting! You'll do great. Don't worry about the foreign object... it isn't going to hurt you
I cant wait for my operation and I'm not even approved or have a date yet! hahaHow's the pre-op going? I know it sounds hard, but what I think is that the pre-op and post-op diet only last 6 weeks of your life and help prolong your life by who knows how long 10, 20, 30 years? Yeah, from reading other's stories it looks like the weight just drops off you as long as you stick to it. Tasmania is GORGEOUS. I went there for a holiday just over 4 years ago and what amazed me was everywhere I visited the scenery was beautiful. The road set-up in Hobart though was crazy! So many one way streets and if you missed your turn off you have to do a round trip of about 4 blocks to get where you wanted to be! Ayers rock is meant to be awesome, you should really try and get there.
Hope the pre-op is going well and look forward to hearing your progress
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It's so funny to hear that people find our accent hard to understand! But isn't that always the way you think people like you should be easy to understand
I find American accents easy to understand, but some european ones are pretty hard. It is lovely down here, I would have thought you would find it a little bit cold, coming from Texas. We do say born and raised here... we probably stole it from you guys. You'll probably be fine. I think it might be harder for people with more weight, as they're elasticity of their skin is stretched further. When I lost my weight last time, I had no problems. I hope I get the band in time for me to lose all my weight (or majority of) for our wedding. -
After reading some other users blogs, I thought I would post my own. I haven't been banded yet and have my first appointment with the surgeon 3rd August (which I can't wait for). However, I thought I would post how I'm feeling and about the little that has happened so far. Here goes... I have almost always been overweight. Even though my Mum tried really hard to get me to eat healthy and exercise. I would try hard for a bit and then burn out and the cycle would continue. After a breakup with my first serious boyfriend I weighed 90-95kgs (198-209lbs), I started going to weight watchers and lost around 25-30kgs (55-66lbs). When I reached the 75kg (165lb) mark I went a bit loopy and stopped eating much at all and exercising like a mad woman, I was having a tough time at work and troubles with hormones and I snapped. I had some time off work, time off exercise and started making myself better. I can't describe how weird it is to realise that I went from over-eating to not eating in such a short amount of time. My brain hadn't quite registered the loss and I still believed myself to be as fat as I was (maybe a couple of kgs less). What made me realise how much weight I had lost was trying on dresses for my mum's wedding. I was pulling size 16-18 dresses of the rack- I ended up purchasing a size 12 dress, which had to be TAKEN IN! That was an achievement I first heard about the lapband a little over 12 months ago. After hearing about it, I organised to go to a information session the local specialist holds. The information session was fantastic, there was a man there that had been banded and lost a large amount of weight. I got an folder with lots of info and left the session thinking this is the right tool for me. However, when I discussed it with my friends and fiance I had half saying 'good for you' and the other half saying 'really?!' with their eyebrows turned up suspiciously. So, after some more thought, I decided to try gym and healthy eating again and if that didn't work, (which it didn't), I'd try and organise lapband. I have tried weight watchers, healthy diet and exercise, shake diets, meal replacement diets, no carb diets, fat free diets, whatever I thought might work. Well I'm tired of what MIGHT work and ready for what I believe WILL work. I'm ready to do this for ME. I want to be as healthy as I can and live a life as long as I can. I want to have confidence in myself again. I want to feel sexy again. I want to be able to go into a store and buy items off the shelf again. I want to go to the beach again. I want to be able to exercise without feeling like the grim reaper is standing beside me grinning. I want to be able to wear lingerie (my brain stops me at the moment). I want to be able to go places and not feel like harpoons are going to be targeted at me anymore. I NEED TO DO THIS FOR ME For those that read this, hopefully you're not asleep drooling on the keyboard. :thumbup: