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Yes I notice people being friendlier in general. I kind of resent it. I feel like they wouldn't give me the time of day before. I remember trying to just make small talk at the doctors office for example and getting ignored. They would look me straight in the eye and it would be why would I want to talk to a fat cow like you? I am a very freindly person and as I put on weight I got that cold stare more and more. It really hurt my feeling. Well lets just face it the world likes normal weight people. edie

Yes Thunder, I really read at the grocery store too. Sometimes I am reading and I go yikes and put it down really quickly. I'm sure that looks funny to someone casually looking my way. I really enjoy the flavored rice,popcorn cakes. They really fill me up quick. They come in bbq (yum),chocolate,carmel,sugar and cinnamon, and graham cracker (good with a little bit of peanut butter). good luck edie

I thought at first I would never enjoy eating out . I really do because it is food that I don't prepare for myself at home. This IS 9 mos after surgery. I feel like I eat like a thin person now. It does help when I go with a friend who will share. Sometimes they don't pick what I would have but really it is no big deal. Before that would have made me very unhappy. I have just changed my way of thinking. It used to be ALL ABOUT the food now it is the company. I never had people stare at my plate or comment. My husband and I would say to the waiter WE are going to have the .... and we will need an extra plate. We gave no explanations . Note we still tip if good service like we ordered two entrees (I'm a past waitress). At first I would carry a Special K protein meal bar in case the restaurant didn't have anything I thought I could eat. It never happened. I just recently when to 2 buffets. I enjoyed them so much because of the variety . Of course I didn't get my moneys worth but so what. You will be ok, edie

This was the first good thing with my band no more injections for my Type II diabetes. It happened 3 mos after surgery. edie

Yes Lexi, I have. edie

I ate at my fav restaurants before my surgery thinking I would never eat there again. Hah. Not true. I have made it back to them. One of them twice!!! edie

I tried a diet mountain dew about two months ago after I let it sit out overnight!!! I cooled it down again then attempted. I would have to burp after EVERY little sip. It wasn't worth it. I guess everyone needs to try for theirselves. Take the risks if you want. Some bandsters say they have no problem. edie

I knew when I started wearing 4x t-shirts I was in trouble. Thank goodness a new friend told me about lab band. edie

Those seats must have felt like thrones. Yeah for you! edie

Don't forget about the Special K protein bars. They are delicious. edie

Good for you Julia, You are starting out right . I commend you for the exercise part . Exercise is what helped me get to my goal so quickly. edie

This is the hardest stage. I feel for you. Pull out every bit of strength you have . I swear I wanted to chew on wood. I can only say it is worth it. good luck, edie

I had my first fil at 6 weeks. It makes such a difference. Maybe it has to do with your stomach healing too. Everyone loses differently . Best wishes, edie

I had to start taking "fiber choice" orange chewable tablets. It does the trick and are delicious. your band sister, edie

2 years and sucessful!! Good for you. your band sister, edie

Rachel, Good advice and congratulations on you band date. I,m here for you and any questions . Good luck, edie:)

Dang, I'm gonna go take my chewable vitamins. edie

Welcome Felicia, It is exciting! You feel like you are taking control and you are. This website helped me so much before and after. If I had a fear or question , I got answers. If I had a something good happen that I wanted to share with bandsters , someone always supported me and was proud with me. Best wishes and the count down begins.... edie

Yes, food just doesn't have that same magic. People who don't have food addictions know it is JUST FOOD. This is my latest stage. I am surprised about how long food stays in my house now. Before it was gone the same day I bought it. edie

I wish you would have asked him how he got so ugly!!! Yes FU uncle. edie

Wow Cutie, This is a hard question. Both surgeons have good points. I hoping the high bmi'ers will answer you. Just wanted to post because I care and I am glad you are going the surgery route . You are so young and have so much life ahead of you . I know you much feel chained to all the weight. Best wishes, edie:)

I was spending at least and I mean at least $7 a day on my habit. I did the math and the money was there. edie

I feel like my gym membership doesn't allow me to blow off walking because it is too hot, too cold, too windy, too wet , too dark outside. You get the picture. edie

I did switch to exercise but like Jack I focus on so many things to do instead of eat!!! It's a good thing for me and my life. edie

Barb, You have made a good commitment to yourself. In time you will be able to eat normal. Normal is not overeating. Normal for the old us is too much food. Try to focus on adding exercise to your lifestyle. My husband began very hostile about my exercising but finally just joined me. He is a very healthy 180 lbs 6'1" . I went thru a mourning for overeating . I sure many more bandsters have too. edie