Koala

I think I'm in big trouble with my band right now. I pray someone has a wonderful idea for fixing this because I need to be able to eat and drink something soon. I haven't had food since last Sunday. Here's how my week has been: Saturday- Got an additional .6 fill in my band for a total of 2.8 in a 4cc. band. Sunday- Waited 24 hours to eat as the fill dr. instructed. Did fine. That night, hamburger got stuck tight. Monday- Couldn't even hold down a drink of Water until the Dr. said to try a hot liquid. It went down. Tuesday- liquids all day...but rushed the two days on liquids orders of my doctor and had some chicken. Well, at least I swallowed it. It came back up. Wednesday- Not even a sip of water would stay down. Went back to fill doctor. He checked my band to see it was still in place. He emptied my band to let me drink, then replaced 2.4. He ordered a liquid diet until Sunday. Thurs.-Sat.- Did fine on an all liquid diet. Today- Tried to eat, got stuck, now, even water hurts tremendously and isn't going down. I really need help. What can I try? My doctor is a 5 hour drive away, and I've already made that trip twice in a week. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to stop that horrible running to the bathroom side effect during an all liquid diet?

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I've lost 100 pounds in 8 months, so it is definitely working for me. Ladies, just remember if you've had PCOS related infertility, that could change with weight loss. On one hand, that could be a blessing. On the other hand, that could bring on quite a surprise. PCOS, for the poster who asked, stands for Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It's name is a bit of a misnomer since it has much more to do with insulin problems than with cysts in the ovaries. Some of the symptoms are: Irregular periods - Nine or fewer menstrual cycles per year may be a sign of PCOS. Bleeding may be heavier than normal. These conditions are caused by a hormone problem, because the ovaries are not working properly and producing hormones that keep the menstrual cycle regular. Infertility - Because women with PCOS don't have regular menstrual cycles, many are unable to get pregnant. With help, women with PCOS can get pregnant, however. A number of infertility treatments are available. (See section on Treatments.) Hirsutism - Hirsutism means excess hair, which can be a difficult symptom for many women. For most women with PCOS, hair in the mustache and beard areas becomes heavier and darker. Masculine hair on the arms and legs and more hair growing in the pubic region, abdomen, chest or back are also possible. This symptom is caused by high levels of male hormones (androgens), as are thinning hair and acne. Thinning hair - Just as heavier hair growth is possible, scalp hair thinning may be present. This is caused by higher levels of androgens. Acne - Acne (pimples and oily skin) can also bother women with PCOS. The acne is usually found around the face (especially along the jaw line), chest, and back. Weight gain - Many women with PCOS gain weight around their middles taking on an apple shape rather than a pear shape. Such weight gain is linked with problems with the proper use of glucose and insulin in the body. Other skin problems - Skin tags, thick lumps of skin that can be as large as raisins, can form and usually are found in the armpits or neck. These can easily be removed. Darkening and thickening of the skin also can occur around the neck, groin, underarms, or skin folds. This condition, called acanthosis nigricans, is a sign of an insulin abnormality. Depression and anxiety - Because of the nature of many of these symptoms, woman may find themselves more anxious or depressed by their appearance, or by their inability to become pregnant.

Thanks for your replies! When I get scared or just need an answer, you guys are always here to help. I want to get on here more often to do the same for others. It really matters to have wonderful people like you who totally understand this process and are so kind and giving as to share your experience. Jack, I'm only Koala, and that's all I've been on here. This other person must have a similar situation to mine or something. The more I've studied it, the more I'm sure that cheese is kryptonite to my band. Ok, more like steel being drawn to a magnet. (If anyone here is old enough to remember it, try not to think of that 70's song "Magnet and Steel." :heh: I think it glumps up, plugs things up, and generally causes havoc for me. As of tonight, I've gotten some hot chocolate and Cup-O-Soup down, so I'm just gonna follow your advice and live with liquids for awhile. Lianna, I am gonna do NOTHING but chew whenever I try food again...no distractions. What I keep doing is waiting until I'm ravenous and reverting back to old habits when it comes to chewing. This last episode was unpleasant enough that I don't ever, ever wanna do it again. Bless you both for your help tonight. I needed you!

If anyone remembers my problem with my last fill....it was too much and it took three 6 hour(each way) trips to end up totally unfilled. I had to take a three week break. Well, Tuesday, I went back for a fill again. After three days of liquids, I tried eating fish and veggies as the doctor had suggested. Locked up, pb'd, slimed, and upchucked. It wasn't pretty. Now, I'm back to no liquids passing through. Has cheese been a culprit in causing problems for anyone after a fill? The veggies I made had a light cheese sauce with them. If it's cheese, I can live without it IF I never have to feel this crappy again!

I DO have something to mention in the problem department. The all-liquid diet can cause urgent diarrhea which is majorly inconvenient in the classroom...not to mention some pretty unpleasant noises in a bathroom shared with students. :painkiller: (sorry, had to use that smilie!) I had forgotten this little problem until I had a rough adjustment period with my recent fill that kept me on all liquids for 2 weeks. :eek:

Here's my update: After a full day and night without getting so much as a drop of Water through, I headed back to Mexico. My doctor did a complete unfill and told me to wait three weeks before going back. He also said to do four more days of liquids. I will follow his orders, but man, I've not had anything solid in my stomach for ten days as it is. It could start making me grumpy, you know? Anyway, even after the unfill, liquids weren't passing through quickly, so my insides were realllllly irritated. I'm actually thankful for the break after having every sip burn and ache...and after being that thirsty. This is a minor setback no where near a defeat. Thank you to everyone for your well-wishes and support. Please send some strength this way that I don't gain anything during this "off" period.

Thank you guys so much for answering. It is priceless to have others who totally understand this journey to share with and to look to for support. Here's my update, I am getting some hot cider through right now. My tummy is gurgling away, but it's going through. My plan is to stay on warm liquids until the achy feeling goes away, then try something mushy. Any suggestions as to a perfect first food to try: mashed potatoes, cream of potato Soup, fish, or what? If I don't have some real food down by Wednesday night, I'm going back to see the doctor and have a total unfill. Funny, last Wed., that was what I dreaded most. I was so thrilled when I left .2 up from when I went in for the fill in Saturday. Now, after a long week without eating, I'm kind of looking at things differently. I am so very tired of the chest pain and the diahrea that seems to go along with the all liquid diet, well, at least it does for me. Jack, you are so right about needing a backup plan. I'm in Las Vegas and the doctors here make it outrageously high to see someone whose band they didn't place. The fact that my doctor is in Mexico doesn't help. I'm limited on what I can do medically here since my insurance excludes anything related to the band. THIS part is a hassle, but one I contemplated about prior to being banded. I really had to take the shot for beating this weight thing once and for all. I'd just rather not go on a starvation diet, literally, to do it. :paranoid

I made it today! I've been on a month-long plateau until this week. As of this morning, I've lost 102 lbs. in 7 months. I am so happy with my band!

I wrote a long post yesterday about my six month anniversary, but my computer had some error and it was lost. So, I'm trying again this morning. Yesterday was the official day. In that time, I've lost 95 pounds and 5 pant sizes. I've regained my energy, happiness, and the feeling of being ME again. I've lost the cpap machine and antidepressants. Now, I can buy clothes a lot more places, and I don't buy the biggest size anymore, either. Turning over in bed isn't the big effort it used to be..neither is tying my shoes or zipping my jeans. I'm no longer having the panic moment of sizing up the booth to table ratio when we go out to eat. I had hoped to reach 100 pounds, but my losses have really, really slowed down, but I intend to try another fill soon to see if that will kick start the ball rolling again. For me, the band has been the blessing I prayed about my entire life. Thank you to everyone who has posted on this site. Your words convinced me to take that first step, and they have continued to answer my questions, encourage me, and keep me focused.

While I was in the emergency room with my mother last week, TIVO scheduling messed up on night two of the auditions, so I haven't seen it. Is anyone able and willing to send a copy to me? I'd so gladly pay for Mom and I to get to see it. Please pm me if you can help me out, I'm so sad about missing it!

Thank you! YOu answered a question that I've had for a month or so now. My weight loss looks good on paper, but I've been pretty much plateaued for two months now. Yet, I still pb at times. That made me think that a fill wasn't a good idea. If you pb, you must be tight enough and getting another fill would only cause more pbing (seems to me). I bet I'm not the only one who is confused over the pb/fill connection. Thanks again!

Thank you so much for your posts. I think I'm going to plan a trip for another fill as soon as possible.

How do I know when I've found my sweet spot? I've had one fill thus far, and it was done under flouroscopy (sp?) but I'm not having consistent weight loss since my fill. Please share the "how you know" part.

I have 7 new pairs of 32 talls to give away. I also have two bags of 26/28s mainly pants. Please pm me if you need either. I'm looking for 22//24 talls and 2x shirts.

My little boy and I were having such a pleasant shopping experience last night. When we got to our second mall, I pulled into a parking spot and noticed a young mother and her baby daughter, who was probably about a year or so old, getting into the car directly in front of us. I pointed out the pretty little girl bundled in pink to my son who loves babies. As I got out of the car to get my son out of his car seat in back, I hear this woman scream "Maybe now you'll shut your f===ing mouth!" to that precious baby girl. I jumped back to look at her with the most despicable look I could give her while shaking my head, but she shot out of there before I could say something. I'm not sure what I'd have said, but it just breaks my heart to think what that baby must live with. I can't begin to imagine talking to one of my children like that. I'm still crushed by it. I quickly realized my son hadn't heard what she said, and I focused on making his night even more fun, but that sweet baby and her nasty mouth, poor excuse of a mother still haunts me. As a 7th grade teacher, and a person who loves kids, it breaks my heart to know that not every child is adored and treated like someone's precious little prince or princess. Every little one is so precious and important.

What a great job you've done! Congratulations on such a successful year. I would love to know any suggestions you have that will help the rest of us be that successful. Will you share? I was dropping it off fast, too, at 81 pounds in 4 months, but losing has slowed down to only a pound a week or so. Did you hit any slumps, and how did you jump start the weight loss at that time? Have you lost much hair? Are you exercising a lot? Thank you for any pointers you have. I am so inspired by you!

My husband and I went to a show last night, and I was so nervous about the seat. I've avoided all shows for the last two years after I went to a Prince concert and had to ask for handicapped seating because the regular seats were too small or, really, my backside was too big to fit in them. Guess what! After 81 pounds, I fit just like everyone else! I acted cool, of course, but I was thrilled inside. until... A woman who weighed perhaps a bit more than I did four months ago tried to sit down two rows ahead of me. She had to be miserable all night. She sat forward and tried to act like she just needed to stretch her back, but the true story was all too apparent to someone who had lived the same experience such a short time ago. How I wanted to give her a hug and tell her that there is a way out of that misery! My journey is far from complete, but the band has totally turned my life around. I wanted to share the answer I've found. I guess I just wanted to reach out a hand and pull her out of the pain I saw on her face and felt in my heart. and yet.. I realized it would be in poor taste for me to approach her. If we had bumped into each other in the ladies' room and had started talking, that might have given me a window. It didn't happen. Please share, do you approach others in situations such as this?

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I'm wondering if anyone can tell me how much biotin I should take to slow down hair loss? I'll call my doctor but I'm wondering how much others are taking.

Ok, this is a rather weird NSV. My manicurist ( a beautiful, tiny little girl) weighs exactly what I've lost as of today. I keep fluctuating between feeling such a sense of accomplishment to sliding back down the emotion scale thinking I have to lose another one of her plus a few pounds.

It IS so worth the fight! I didn't have an option with my insurance. Our Teachers' Health Trust had an exclusion on all bariatric surgery, so my DH worked hard to find the money. It was worth every penny. I was banded on Aug. 7, and you can see my results below. My life has changed with the courage to do it and the price of a car. Without doubt, it is/was the single best thing I've ever done for myself and my family.

Congratulations! What a wonderful NSV. You must celebrate by doing something wonderful for yourself today...a pedicure...massage...new purse, perhaps?

I've lost 74 since Aug. 7, but I've hit a major plateau in the last two weeks. I'm rechecking everything to see what's changed that could have stopped my losing. I've had one fill of 2.2 in my band that holds 4 cc's.

Hugs to you! By his lack of vocabulary, inability to truly express his feelings other than spouting out the F word, and poor social skills, he must be living at the bottom of the pile. Normally, people who have a tendency toward name calling outgrow it by the time they finish junior high. His words were based on anger at his pathetic existence, and really, they don't matter to you in the least. The only way he's won anything is if you spend another second letting it bother you. Chalk it up to him being scum, get a chuckle out of him attempting to control a woman of your caliber, and put it out of your mind. You carried yourself like a lady, and we're all proud of you!