I haven't told anyone except my husband, and I've sworn him to secrecy. The reason is, that so many people are uneducated about these surgeries. Many people believe that it's the 'easy way out'. It's nothing of the sort. It's alot of work to stick to a diet and continue to try to improve your life. I concentrate every single day on making good decisions. Having the lap band inside of me makes me be more continuous in my decisions. Before the lap band, I would give up on diets after a month or so. Now, I refuse to have spent all the money and have gone through the pain to give up after a month. Maybe since your sister needs an education about how things work, I would start with educating her about your daily stuggles and how much concentrated effort it takes on your part. Let her know how much you exercise and how you concentrate on choosing good foods (I would tell her everday, until she was sick of hearing my voice, but that's me). Maybe your sister will pass that information on to her gossip chain so that they can be educated. Then, I would educate her on what it means to be a trusted friend. This is a lesson she would benefit from, since she will likely loose alot of friends from this type of betrayal if she were to continue in her present mode. Either way, you have to know that you have made a decision that belongs soley to you, and you didn't make that decision without a lot of soul searching and education about what you were doing, so good for you for being brave enough to go through with what you believed was right. Kudos to you! Don't let anyone tell you what is right or wrong for you. You only get one life, and it belongs entirely to you.