I am 38 and have had three children. When I started this journey, I was sick and tired of being overweight. My top weight was 229 at 5'1, size 18 in pants and 2x in shrits. I am now happier and weight 177 and in a size 10-12.
I figured out how to log into the chat......log out of the main site and then click on the chat tab. The chat window will open up and ask you for your user name and password. Brian