melmarlem

I haven't been on here in a while, it sure is nice to be back! I know this is the one place I can turn to for some much needed advice! Here's the deal. For 8 months now I've been talking to an amazing guy. 2 months ago we decided to be exclusive. Everything is a fairytale except...his ex wife is still in the picture! They have no children together. I'm having a hard time understanding why she still remains in his life. Twice now my boyfriend and I have gone out with his ex-wife and her fiance. Crazy, I think!! I feel completely uncomfortable around her and I think that's only normal. He on the otherhand doesn't understand why I am uncomfortable with them remaining "friends". What do you all think? Is this something I should be bothered by? Should I be comfortable with someone I really care about still being associated with his ex-wife? Even if they don't have children? I want to be able to move forward with him and to focus on the future but I feel like it's impossible when he's still living in the past...

Congratulations! You've done amazing! :thumbup:

Someone please tell me I'm not the only one experiencing this! Here's the deal...I had lap-band sugery in August of 2009 and lost 100 lbs in 6 months. I had been doing everything by the book until March. For whatever reason I fell off the bandwagon in March. Started eating ice cream and all kinds of sugar filled foods. While I haven't gained any weight, I haven't lost any weight in over a month. The problem is my mom. She seems to have caught on that I'm not making the wisest food choices. But she must think that she's the food police because she always has some kind of negative comment to make regarding what I eat. Take yesterday for example, I told her that I felt huge and her response was "From all the banana-nut bread you've been eating?" This morning she was in my room while I was slipping into my jeans. They had just come out of the dryer and were a little bit tight. Of course she had some critical comment to make. She asked "What size are those?" When I told her they were 12's she said, "I don't know about those". Seriously, what is her deal!?! :bored: Has anyone else had an experience with a negative person regarding their eating habits and/or weight? This has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through in my life. It is NOT easy living with the lap-band, especially when the people you live with are eating your favorite foods in front of you. I love food and I'm finding that I am actually mourning for some of the foods. I have definitely hit a bump in the road. I need all of the support I can get right now. She sure isn't making this easy on me. Not that I ever expected it to be easy...

I really like the EAS Advantedge carb control strawberries n cream protein shakes. 110 calories, 3g of fat, 3g carbs, 0g sugar, and 17g protein per 11 oz. I'm not convinced that increasing your protein intake will make you lose faster-but it may help you feel fuller longer and that's speaking for solid protein. I don't feel like the protein drinks keep me full at all. My doc recommends 1/2 cup of food 3 times a day-no snacks. 1/4 cup seems like too little.