chefla

Thanks again for the words that I really needed to hear right now. I hve been hearing good things all week long and told myself OK, now your're ready to do this. I went to the salon today and decided to mention it to my stylist "MISTAKE!". she immediatly said DON'T DO THAT! and went into detail about her cousin that is no long with us after a three month complication of a bowel blockage after gastric bypass. I told her PLEASE DON'T SAY THAT. my mind is set and I have too many medical problems that I need to try to get control of. she calmed down a minute on the topic and then later showed me a picture of her cousin. This is exactly why I dont want to tell folks untill about a month after its been done. Thanks for offering to talk when I need it.