I told 2 close friends before my surgery on July 7, 2009. I told my husband the day before that I was getting a procedure done to help my weight. I didn't tell him or anyone else because I didn't want them to talk me out of it. It has taken a year to get to my surgery. I'm now three weeks post-op and doing wonderful. I've lost 18lbs so far. Now my whole family knows and are supportive. I'm not at all embarassed and look at it this way -- many people get plastic surgery, breast implants, etc. I got banded for my health. Good luck with your surgery tomorrow.