Hi Wanna_be_a_momma! I am in a similar boat as you are. I always said "I would never get wieght loss surgery" but after trying everything and being 420-440lbs for 5 years now, I feel like I have no other choice if I ever want to have children... I am really haveing a hard time making this dicision, Im not sure why... I guess its because I am having a hard time saying that I need help and cant do this by myself... My husband does not like the idea but will support me if I decide to do it. My insuranse wont cover it because I have no weight related health issues... which I think is rediculous, I weigh over 400lbs! I am going to have health issues soon if I dont do anything about it! Anyway, I have decided to go to Mexico and get it done. I have heard great things about Dr. Kuri so thats where Im going.:thumbdown: