Thanks to all who replied...I did speak with my surgeon, who called for immediate removal of the band. There was no obvious infection, and he is hesitant to say that my body "rejected" the Band, but it did. It happens to people with breast implants, hip replacements, etc., so why not this?
I'm sure I'm in the small percentage of people this happens to, but it's very difficult to find documentation, since the Band is still a newer technology.
All my symptomology has disappeared. No fevers, no more extreme body ache and fatigue. My gallbladder pain is gone. My horrifying acid reflux is gone.
I can eat a whole green salad again! Over six years, I have developed better eating habits, and while I'll never be as thin as I once was, I am healthy and relieved to no longer be in such a desperate state.
good luck to those who remain banded...long term, it just didn't work for me.