Good Morning Everyone. I am looking for someone, anyone who can help me. I am 34 years old and have been fighting with my weight for the last 16 years. I have as I am sure most of us have tried every diet, fad, pill and potion out there to lose weight. I am to the point that I am not living, I am hiding. I feel like no one including myself sees me anymore that they only see the fat person I have become. It has gotten to the point that I am not the only one suffering anymore, but my children are too. They want to go to the water and amusement parks, and I just won't go. Because I am mortified at the thought of putting on a swimming suit and the thought of not being able to fit on a ride is enough to make me want to go to bed for the rest of my life. But also my back and joints can’t take it anymore.
Yesterday I went to my doctor to finally discuss what my options could be, including counseling a nutritionist and bariatric surgery. Because I am having health problems due to my weight, and the fact that there are other problems that are sneaking up on me but have not reared their ugly head as of yet. She thought that I was an excellent candidate for the lap band surgery. She asked me to call my insurance company and find out what doctors they would work with. I left her office feeling happy and unbelievably hopeful for the first time in I can't tell you how long.
I called my insurance company immediately only to be told that they would not cover this for me. I don’t understand. Why would they want to cover insulin and heart medication, back and knee surgery but they do not want to cover something that could help avoid all of it. I feel absolutely defeated. If someone has any suggestions, advice anything please let me know. Thank you all in advance.