I am a "secret keeper" also. Only 2 family members know I am planning this .. I don't need advice from the anexoric poster people, telling me -- Just don't eat so much . They don't seem to understand , I am mobility impaired and also am older than most of the people on this forum.
So far, I have met with the psych people and the nutritionist. See the Dr. in 3 weeks to set surgery date .
BTW-- my "insurnace " refuse to pay 1 cent for this surgery-- it will be totally out of pocket for me ..