I think that if our bodies liked to lose weight easily we would not be here. : )
Personally, I am hoping for that 1 to 2 pound a week loss. I don't want to offend anyone, but I don't really want to be a walking advertisement for weight loss surgery. So slow and steady would be great by me. And, while my personal experience has been that people who have these operations DO gain weight back, think of it this way: you are doing this the right way in learning how to eat right. So slow means you WILL have long term success. One year from now you will be a very happy camper!