ruthpets
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Biography
Former NOLA gal in NY for last 22 years
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Female
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Reading, cooking, writing
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Homemaker
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City
Northshore
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NY
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11030
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ruthpets started following body dysmorphia and family support, Band to sleeve, Don't ever do this! (Mine was 8 days post-surgery) and and 6 others
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Band to sleeve
ruthpets replied to sherrybeary's topic in Revision Weight Loss Surgery Forums (NEW!)
Had my revision on 3/15/21 and I feel amazing. I had been fairly successful keeping the weight off with the LB (however, I still wanted to lose more weight but wasn’t anywhere near to being as heavy as I had been pre-LB). I also had a horrible hiatal hernia and GERD that was pretty severe. HH was repaired during surgery and have not experienced one episode of reflux since. I am down 30 pounds since surgery. Weight loss has been steady but slower this go-around (very common after revisions, just FYI), but I am 10000000% happy I did the revision! -
Don't ever do this! (Mine was 8 days post-surgery)
ruthpets replied to Dave In Houston's topic in Gastric Bypass Surgery Forums
Yes!! And I truly believe this is yet another reason to try to avoid alcohol (at least for me); I tend to pay no heed to the signals of fullness if I have had a cocktail or wine. -
ruthpets reacted to a post in a topic: Don't ever do this! (Mine was 8 days post-surgery)
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The Keto fried chicken sounds like a MAJOR game-changer!!! I am SOOOOOOO going to try that! It's freakin brilliant!!
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ruthpets reacted to a post in a topic: Surprising Bariatric Surgery Discoveries?
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ruthpets reacted to a post in a topic: Has anyone regretted getting the surgery?
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ruthpets reacted to a post in a topic: Discuss: childhood dieting & related trauma
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Discuss: childhood dieting & related trauma
ruthpets replied to james2021's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Wow. This is such a wonderful, powerful post. So much of this and the responses speaks VOLUMES to me. Many thanks to all of you. Seriously❤️ -
ruthpets reacted to a post in a topic: Discuss: childhood dieting & related trauma
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Congratulations!!! You look amazing and I am sure you FEEL amazing!!! So very happy for you!!
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What was your tipping point?
ruthpets replied to 3tallwomen's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
My tipping point: My mom started having weight-related health problems at a young age - late 40's - (she developed high BP, Type2 diabetes, eventually congestive heart failure) and died at age 74. In fact, she was hospitalized for heart issues, and in the same hospital as I was when I was giving birth to my youngest child at age 41! She didn't even live to see my daughter's first birthday. Anyway, long story short, a year after my mom died, I was 80 pounds overweight and saw myself going down the same exact path. This was all 12 years ago; got a Lapband, lost the weight and just recently got a VSG revision because of a hernia and GERD. Losing weight has changed me in so many ways, not the least of which is freeing me from my "living to eat" mentality. I still enjoy food but I know at the end of the day, it's just a meal. All my best to you - it's the start of something wonderful for you! -
6 Weeks Post Op - feeling great
ruthpets replied to Big Poppa Pop's topic in Gastric Bypass Surgery Forums
WOW!!! Such a great post - congratulations and so very happy for your success!! -
One glass of wine....
ruthpets replied to Hopefulin2021's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I did have wine and it does hit you quicker, definitely true. But I didn’t get sick or feel bad from it. I only had one and I really nursed it, over the course of an hour. I personally think that, aside from alcohol being empty calories, etc., doctors want us to avoid it because of a tendency to make stupid food decisions as a result. When I drink, I absolutely do not pay careful attention to what I am eating or how fast I am eating... -
body dysmorphia and family support
ruthpets replied to Nanagrrl3's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Would it be possible for you to tell these family members that, going forward, you just don't want to discuss your weight at all? You are the one doing all the work, it's YOUR story, your body. I figured out a long time ago that in addition to politics, money and religion, WEIGHT and opinions about others' child-rearing were all topics better left alone. You are doing SO awesome, BTW!! -
Week or so Post op and frustrated
ruthpets replied to MissyG133's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
I was STARVING. My surgeon said it was because liquids can only satiate your hunger for a little while, they don't stay long in your new small stomach, they pass through quickly and then you're back to being hungry again. It got MUCH better for me on purees. And YES, I had to COOK things my family loves and just grab a couple of SF ice pops & RETREAT! -
Time from consult to surgery - no insurance
ruthpets replied to Cd8321's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I also paid out of pocket. Started the process mid-January, had my surgery on 3/17. I found that I needed to really emphasize to my surgeon and his staff that I was paying out of pocket. It took a few times for them to understand that I was not waiting around for Oxford to approve the surgery and that I was good to go as soon as possible (I lucked out and was able to get ALL my pre-op tests done lickety-split -- like all within 2 weeks). GL!!!! -
I'm a 3/15/21 VSG!
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I was able to have my repair done at the same time as my sleeve but I know the recuperation is VERY SIMILAR to the sleeve: liquids, then puree, soft foods, restrictions on what you should lift, etc. This all will probably help a great deal if your surgeon requires a pre-op diet before the sleeve because you will definitely drop weight during the recovery. It's a fairly significant surgery - my hernia was a lot larger than my doctor anticipated, and it added a lot more time to my surgery. But, that being said, you are going to feel SOOOOOO MUCH better after taking care of this!!! I sure do!! GL!!
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Best of luck!! You sound like you are in a great place mentally!!
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Has anyone regretted getting the surgery?
ruthpets replied to Roses436's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have never regretted my Lapband, even with some of the bad issues that went with it and I don't regret my recent revision to a sleeve. To be unburdened from a fixation with food, surrendering the concept of food as a comfort, and finally loving my body has been an amazing thing for me.