Hey sweetie. I had the same problem with my husband before I got banded. As a matter of fact I waited 2 weeks before my surgery to tell him due to the fact he was so against it:cursing:. When I told him he was furious and felt betrayed and worried about me making it through the surgery. He is one to be against all weight loss procedures, pills, etc., he only believes in losing it naturally and nothing is wrong with that, it just never worked for me. Anyway, needless to say he came around and was my biggest supporter :thumbup:. After surgery he did everything for me, he made me the best broth (from scracth) I had ever had. HE WAS AWESOME! So hang in there and always remember to do whats best FOR YOU!