Holly, I am 54 yrs old and have been over weight all my life I was told I was obese when I weighed 240 and went to the police academy and actually gained 10 lbs in 1977. Since then I have lost and gained hundreds of pounds and lost my gall bladder to boot. I have researched the lap band for the last 5 yrs or so and have been talked out of it by my family. I recently developed knee problems and have decided that I am being banded for myself and no one else. I just wish I had done this yrs ago. My surgery date will be scheduled for late June or early July good luck and don't worry about what others think , they will back you when you decide it is right for you.