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are there any of you NOT on a pre-op diet? I'm wondering if I will just get mine when I go for my pre-op appt on the 10th...but they haven't said anything about it yet! Is it an insurance requirement? I'm self-pay.

YAY! Congrats!! I think that pain might be gas pain? Did they tell you? Poor thing. I am glad to hear you are all done and well. Can't wait to watch as you go through your journey, Smokey! It's just the beginning, but wow, of a whole new chapter...heck, a whole new book!!

Good luck Smokey!! Can't wait to hear all about it!!

My surgery date has been scheduled: February 16. My pre-op appointment is for the 10th. I find I am excited, nervous, and surprisingly, hesitant...like...do I really, really want to do this? Is this just all in my mind that I really need this surgery and I can't just do it by dieting? I think I've been waiting so long for this that I wonder if it is all real. It is hard for me to imagine what my life might be like this time next year. P.S. does anyone know how to change the Member Title? I've looked all over under the "edit profile" feature and nothing....I need to change October 2010 to February 16, 2010 up there underneath my pic. Thanks!

2/16 is my band date!

Smokey, you are right, you WILL get over it!!! It will be just about the time you get yourself into a pair of jeans, look in the mirror, and say, "Dang, I make this look good!" Truly though, you are my hero. It's a scary thing doing this by yourself, but I understand about your hesitancy in telling family. My parents are gone, but my sister knows, only b/c I know she'll keep it to herself. My husband's parents are still alive, as are all his siblings, and none of them know....nor WILL THEY...at least not right now. I love them all, but they can be very judgemental and stick their nose in where it doesn't belong. Thankfully my husband supports that decision 100% and in fact, suggested it LOL So Friday, eh? All righty then. Hopefully you will have internet there at your hospital and you can check in with us.

I hope I didn't offend by offering advice. I just wanted to help.

Hey Lori, thank you so much!! I did want to let you know that you can quote someone and respond in the same post--I didn't know if you knew that or maybe your computer was being wacky, as computers often are! When you quote someone's post, all you have to do is type your response right underneath their quote in the text box. I hope that helps somewhat!

Here's the thing that sealed the deal for me (and I've had all sorts of peoole giving me their unsolicited 2 cents...LOL): Lap-Band is reversable and removable. Gastric Sleeve is permanent. There are no long-term studies to show what gastric bypass or gastric sleeve surgery will do to your body. I am very blessed to have a husband who is a Ph.D. in Genetics and Human Molecular Biology. He was very matter of fact about this surgery and felt that the lap-band was the best one for me based on the above. Trust yourself, but brace yourself, too. You will find opposition. Have confidence in your decision and do not feel like you have to explain yourself.

Hi there I'm Polly, and I am having my lapband done in February! In fact, I am calling the scheduler back tomorrow to pick a date. It has been a long road as I was supposed to have it done over a year ago, but my husband got a terrific job offer and we moved from Houston to San Antonio and the new insurance did not cover it. So we began to save money and here I am. I am excited but very nervous, however, when I start to feel anxious....all I think of is how many things are wrong with me physically that will be sooo much better in the long run. I just turned 40 last month, so this is, in a way, a birthday present to myself, in the hopes that I have many, many more birthdays!! I have Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, a form of hypothyroidism, and I also have PCOS and a mess of other little annoying things that tie into those two. I live in San Antonio, I have been married 8 1/2 years and have two sweet little girls. I look forward to getting to know you all as we move through this journey together!!

Okay, so here it is 7 months later and I have most of my $$ for the surgery. It is $12.5K and I have $8K. The other $4.5K will be put on my recently-paid off credit card--but it's a lower interest rate than CareCredit so that's why I'm doing it. I've notified Dr. Cavazos' office and they've sent all the paperwork. Now I wait for their scheduler to call me. Very exciting! Just wanted to update.

thank you for posting this info! I just sent Dr. Stegemann's office an email regarding this; will definitely post an update when I hear more.

Hi Karen! Actually, I'm with United Healthcare PPO, they're the ones that denied me. I was previously with BCBS TX. We are now in San Antonio and I have found a doc that charges $12K. I am going to have to figure out if we can do it. Hi rldm. Before we moved to San Antonio last month, my husband worked for MD Anderson for 15 years. We had BCBS of TX through them. They WILL pay, but they do have restrictions. I believe one of them is that you must have a BMI of 40, plus you have 6 months before they'll do it. If you meet their requirements, you will be approved. I was SO close...then we had a job change. *sigh* Good luck to you...:thumbup:

I don't know about a draft for this particular war, but I am a strong supporter of ALL young Americans doing a 2 yr military stint similar to what Israel does.

I am in the same boat--I just found out today that while morbid obesity isn't an exclusion itself (the company will pay to find that out, apparently, with super-helpful diagnostic testing! *big eye roll*)--any surgery is NOT covered. This really, really, really sucks. I could have had this done when we were in Houston with my husband's old employer, but with our new insurance (United Healthcare PPO), his company has opted NOT to cover that surgery. His company is one under the Bristol Bay Native Corporation of Alaska umbrella btw (though we're in San Antonio)...yeah, isn't obesity like a huge problem in Alaska? Get on the ball, BBNC... *sigh* I was really hoping to get my surgery done in January. I am just devastated! :biggrin:

This is my first step in learning more about whether Lap-Band is right for me. It has taken a few months of discussion with my DH to get him to support me, and he's still not 100%...but he's getting there. Hopefully, this meeting will help answer questions that we both have. I am 38, I live in Houston with my husband and two lovely daughters, who are 4 and 15 months. They keep me very busy. I have never been a skinny girl, but I've always been tall. I am 5'11". I weighed 150 at 15, 170 at 23, and continued to gain throughout my life, with the last few years being the worst. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism in 2002. Severe. I had a TSH of 125. My weight at that time was around 250. I had my first daughter, and was able to get down to 220 with Atkins, but after my second child was born 15 months ago, everything changed and I am now at 300. I essentially gained 50 lbs within a year, and three months of that year was strictly doing Weight Watchers (I joined after the 2nd was born). It's hard to do WW and go to meetings when each week you see a gain and not a loss. My endocrinologist sent me to a specialist that deals with resistant thyroids, who flat-out said, "You HAVE to lose weight. If you don't, you will have diabetes by the end of the year. If you want WLS, tell me, I will write a script for it right now. It is that critical." We were like, whoa, whoa, wait a minute...surgery...what? We didn't want any part of that. We left feeling...kind of upset but it opened a window in my mind, though I didn't really know it at the time. It's been almost 9 months since then. Now that my thyroid is under control, it is time for me to get my weight under control. I was extremely resistant to WLS due to the thought that I was "giving up" and was unsure if it would even work for me. However, after reading some blogs over the past few months, and researching lap-band extensively, I decided to approach my husband with the idea. He was initially resistant as well, as he feels surgery is so drastic and unnecessary--but he also realizes what kind of weight loss battle I have been in since we have been married (7 years next month). I know he wants to see me healthy and happy; but he is a Ph.D. in cancer research--so he is very wary of things like this. He has to have all the data before him so he can make an educated decision. I'm the same way, but not as...anal retentive about it. :w00t: Anyway, it was a long road just to get to where I am but I am sure my story sounds familiar to many as they have been down the same path. I am anxious to go to this meeting and just want to learn more; I am ready to start my journey and am ready to be healthy in all ways. I realize it's all on me and that the band is a tool, but I also acknowledge that I may need that tool in my arsenal to help me and it is not a weakness for me to say so. Thanks for listening to me ramble :blushing:, and I look forward to getting to know you all better over the coming months. :w00t:

Thank you so much! Hubby is always grateful for the kudos, as you might imagine the ones behind the scenes don't always get the recognition they deserve. His cousin died at 27 of ovarian cancer. He was 23 and at UT; both had plans to enter medical school when she was diagnosed. When she died, he decided he wanted to be on the research side of things. He's been with MD Anderson now a little over 11 years. I am super proud of him. Congratulations on being cancer-free!! :thumbup: Awesome!

Well, I went to the seminar last night. It was very good, but I was surprised when I walked in. The doctor that gave the talk was Dr. Davis--he and his son were on the show "Big Medicine" on TLC. I recognized his accent right off the bat! It was a very good seminar and my husband was fully supportive once we left. I think his questions were answered. The bad thing--which, I suppose isn't "bad" necessarily--just annoying--is that my insurance requires me to be on a medically supervised diet for 6 months--so any hope of me being banded this summer is out the window. It's slightly disappointing, but not horrible. I just wish my insurance company could understand that for the past, oh, 15 years of my life I've been on a diet. Kinda funny. My next step is to see my PCP, which I have an appointment with her on Tuesday. I am excited and can't wait to get the ball really rolling. I might be banded by January--it's an amazing thought, really. I've been yo-yo-ing between 230-275 throughout my 20s and 30s and now I will be going into my 40s being healthier than I've ever been. It's a sobering thought. Sad I wasted so much time, but happy I am doing something now. :thumbup: