hi guys..i am a 38 yr old housewife and mother of 3 aged 6 and younger.....i am to be banded on the 30th of july and very excited.......this something i have researched and looked forward to for the last few months. i have been motivated enough to get the ball rolling and complete all the tasks i needed to get the surgery date.
my problem is my husband..he is so against it. he is very controlling in nature and i think, wants to keep me the fatted housewife at home. yesterday he told me not to talk to him and that i wasnt getting it done after he found out about the 2000.00 copay.
i am having it done if i have to make 50 dollar payments for the next 3 years. so we are not speaking.
my mom and sister are very supportive.
he also says i am taking an unnecessary risk w/ anesthesia and having the three kids...i am nopt thinking of them.
i say i am in wanting to be happy and healthy.
what are your thoughts ??
i know this is a lot for a first post..but i am irrirtated..lol
what is going to od..tell people he left me casue i got a lapband.......RIDICULOUS !!! :confused:
newbie
in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Posted
hi guys..i am a 38 yr old housewife and mother of 3 aged 6 and younger.....i am to be banded on the 30th of july and very excited.......this something i have researched and looked forward to for the last few months. i have been motivated enough to get the ball rolling and complete all the tasks i needed to get the surgery date.
my problem is my husband..he is so against it. he is very controlling in nature and i think, wants to keep me the fatted housewife at home. yesterday he told me not to talk to him and that i wasnt getting it done after he found out about the 2000.00 copay.
i am having it done if i have to make 50 dollar payments for the next 3 years. so we are not speaking.
my mom and sister are very supportive.
he also says i am taking an unnecessary risk w/ anesthesia and having the three kids...i am nopt thinking of them.
i say i am in wanting to be happy and healthy.
what are your thoughts ??
i know this is a lot for a first post..but i am irrirtated..lol
what is going to od..tell people he left me casue i got a lapband.......RIDICULOUS !!! :confused: