Was reading everyone comments on staff. I feel that we get along with some people and others not so good. There are 3 of them, so get the one you feel comfortable with and get her only or Dr. Hoffman. Some people we relate to and others not so well. Such is life and we all have to face this problem, wither work or out in public. But I feel that lap band was the chance to move on in this life, even though it is hard, I will never quit trying. Good luck and remember you are the most important reason and no one else. Eileen