Hi all, new to the forums... obviously :confused: I havent even been a lurker and thats kinda different for me, i tend to lay low in the background before announcing my presence.
Anywhooo..
I am an almost 33 yo mother of 3 children, and at over 300, perhaps at 310ish 5'8. I have tried diet after diet after method etc.
I refuse to do gastric bypass, actually dont think i would be able to due to the high instances of intestinal scaring and obstruction in my children. So im relenting myself to one of two things.
1- stay obese
2- do something about it
Since im not content staying obese i want to loose this weight but time and again fail. The most i have lost since my mid 20's was in 2004 and i lost 60ish pounds only to gain 70ish back. My health is starting to wain, during the summer i cant even try to loose weight as my kidneys dont tolerate the heat mixed with a high Protein plan, i swear i gain 10lbs of Water in my legs (scale proven) a day, then dont have the ability to pee it off. Rinse and repeat.
So now im here with a couple of questions.
1- I dont have insurance that will pay for lap banding and it is prohibitevly expensive to do in the states, so looking for the best but moderatly priced physician out there (looking more and more like cancun i have personal bad experiences from younger days in the navy in Tiajuna *sp*) How much can i expect to spend for a surgeon in Mexico
how much is the followup for physicians in the US, as i cant afford to fly to cancun to many times in a year... would be cheaper for followup closer to my location and pay out of pocket
What is entailed in the followup.
and finally, have any of you guys done the surgery financing found in various places on the internet. Surgeryloans.com or e-financingsolutions.com.
There are so many things i want to do with my life, i want to run, i want to ski with my kids but cant fit the boots around my ankles, i want to feel comfortable around my husband intimately, i want to find a job (i am working currently) but found a certain level of discrimination when doing excellent in phone interviews, loving the skills and resume but interview with a tall skinny blonde, or a handsome hunk of a guy and then dont get the job. I cant help but feel that there is some level of discrimination, which i think in society is just inevitable, most people like to hang out at work with people that are similar to their own.
So here i am, deflated and tired of my weight, my leg burning with being so Fluid overfilled, had my maximum dose of lasix for the day with still not urinating. Doc says its only weight related issues and not kidney failure.
So anyway, thanks for your help.
Alisha
