Boo Boo Kitty

Hey ladies I wanted to drop by to send my support, love and well wishes. Those last 20 pounds are the hardest ever, but I know you girls can do it! You have all made it this far and all are so amazing nothing can hold you back! xoxoxo

I LOVE lima beans!

I wish DH has been there last 3 times and NEVER speaks up. That is who he is though.....

Rewewed I suck in the kitchen too. I have learned to get really good with chicken. I buy the pre cooked things at the store and make lots of stuff with them. I got a recipe book on it! You can do this!

Here is the only one I have so far right now, I didn't get a disk at the shoot so I am going to pick one up next week! I had great fun though and I think so far they look great! BTW, Ginger Rayne is my pin up name. I will have a website up soon. This photographer is also the web designer of the site.

Neal Glad to hear your revision went well. I was told as well that TT revisions were done in office, I had no idea how! I hope you heal well and look great! You already do!

Tina I am glad to hear that you are strong and ready to do what is right for you and the boys! I think you are strong and now that you know what you want you will stay that way! You can do this, as much as it sucks! You do deserve to be the queen that you are, I am sorry for him that he doesn't see it. Some men are just to blind to see what they have until it is gone! Good luck and I am here when ever you need me! Don't be afraid to call me!

lol doesn't matter here plain, we are all one big screwed up family! :biggrin2:

Hey all! Thanks for all of the encouragement. I am going back to PS on the 18th of this month. Yay...not.... I am going to have DH take some pics of the problems but I wanted to show you all a good new pic of me. I am also posting this on another thread but here I am!

Can I imagine pb'ing bulls balls? F*ck no because balls do not go in THIS mouth! :smile2:

I think it takes time to forgive and while it does need to happen I don't think it can happen anytime soon. I honestly believe telling her spouse will hurt you more than anyone. You will be cutting open wounds that you want to heal. If you keep cutting them open like that it will never happen. I do understand that you want to tell him, but like someone else said it is not your marriage, nor do you know if HE would want to know. Chances are he does know already, even if no one else on earth knows he does. I think telling him is not a good choice for you. You need to heal, you need to move on, you need to focus on YOU not her, her husband or at this point your husband. You need to take care of YOU!

Ok, I am hot under the collar. Is it our JOB to stop, cure, whatever you want to call it the fears, insecurities and misgivings of our signifigant other's about us being faithful? Why should I constantly have to reassure that I am not straying or that no one else has caught my eye? What is our job as a spouse, lover, girlfriend, boyfriend to make them feel comfortable about WHO we have become?

Cool Manatee! :thumbs_up:

Ya Dan, but the old ones just went to the floor out of a bra! Way too soon after surgery! I am surprised all golfers aren't hot 6-pack packing! Every muscle in my stomach was screaming!

OMG I love that one!! Next time it will be said! :thumbs_up:

Thanks guys. He is getting to the physco point though and I think that is where the problem is. I don't want to have to worry when I am on a call for work that he will say (again) "who's that, you f*ing him too". I don't want to have to worry whether I can talk to friends without being grilled or pursecuted. I think that is where I am now. I want to talk to him, but he is not the type to talk and is never open to it. I am to the point where I feel like I am fighting just to prove I am not a whore, which I am not. I don't have any desire to be with anyone else, but I am feeling pushed away. I don't want to be with someone who can't trust me, even on the phone! At what point is the comforting beyond necessary? I can tell you that I can't go on long like this! And then he does the sweet simple things like tape a tv show he knows I would want to see and he reminds me that no one knows me better. Why would I want to go anywhere else? :thumbs_up:

I have to be to work by 7 am so I don't have a choice! :biggrin2:

That is absolutely right. That is why I just ate an entire bag of popcorn, washed it down with 3 Mountain Dews and will be having a box of girl scout Cookies with an Ex Lax chaser!

Froggi I am so sorry hun. We all know you deserve better than that! What bs. Don't leave us for some a$$holes....

Hey yall thought I would post a new pic. It was at a golf outing this weekend. I couldn't play...I was sad so I got to drink and drive the cart! lol... I hate this pic because it makes me look like I have a double chin though! lol.... And remember here was the before....same shirt!

Ok, thought I would post some of my before/after since plastic surgery. Here is the before..... (PUKE...) August 2006 just before surgery, 320 pounds June 2008 I HATE this picture because it makes me look like I have a double chin, so avoid the face and look at the body...lol...

I am posting just to say I am considering murder......

I 2nd that question!

I was banded August 2006. I got 1.00 ccs first time. Didn't do much. took it up in tiny tiny steps of .25ccs at a time to my sweet spot which is 3.25. I am happy there, although I am sure now I need some out!

Thanks! Maryrose! Good luck to you! :tt1: