milwif

Again, thanks for your quick response! What am I hesitant about? Well, the major surgery thing is part of it! And, I've read so many accounts of people who struggle with their band and food, and just don't know if I want to spend the rest of my life doing that, even to be thinner. Then there's the whole "What if I can't make this work?" thing, too. I'll have nothing left, if I can't do this. There would be no hope left. And it's such a drastic solution to what is, admittedly, a drastic problem. I'm really leaning towards YES! because I can't stand being this size anymore! I'm 5'7" and weight 323.