I agree with nearly everything you said, except, the wife is the last to know. In preparing to conduct surveillance on a cheating husband, I generally interview the wife. Normally, the wife doesn't put all the clues together without the help of an investigator, however, when reviewing his recent history, the wife is able to recall he has begun to wear aftershave, began working out, works lots of overtime, buys new clothes, takes up a sport (bowling, softball, etc.) which gives him time away from home, closes the door when talking on the telephone, etc. Most of us have very distint patterns, or habits, and when an affair begins, those patterns change. Many times wives don't pay attention to small signs of behavior changes, but when it all comes out, most women admit there were signs early on that were dismissed.
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