savannahsmommie

Ok, I posted this in the Men's Room asking their advice, but I think I need the ladies too. My husband cheated on me the first couple of weeks we were dating, years ago. He came clean when we started getting serious and has not done it again, that I can tell. I had my suspicion about him back when we were first dating and they were confirmed when he admitted it. We've now been married nearly 4 years, and have two beautiful children. Yesterday, I went to pick up my kids from daycare and their provider and I always chit chat. She made a joke about how my husband was text messaging her daughter (who also works at the daycare) the other night and asking how she liked living on her own now (she recently got her own place) and how she was doing? She said it as if I knew, and I played along. I went home and asked my husband and he really didn't have a good answer for me. Just that he was being nice because she takes care of our kids. HELLO! She's a twenty one year old, college student, that is skinny and blond and perfect! I got banded two weeks ago and he has been acting strange ever since. Do you think I should be suspicious?

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Ok guys, sorry for invading your Men's Room, but I am a woman who needs some input. My husband cheated on me the first couple of weeks we were dating, years ago. He came clean when we started getting serious and has not done it again, that I can tell. I had my suspicion about him in the beginning. We've now been married nearly 4 years, and have two beautiful children. Yesterday, I went to pick up my kids from daycare and their provider and I always chit chat. She made a joke about how my husband was text messaging her daughter (who also works at the daycare) the other night and asking how she liked living on her own now (she recently got her own place) and how she was doing? She said it as if I knew, and I played along. I went home and asked my husband and he really didn't have a good answer for me. Just that he was being nice because she takes care of our kids. HELLO! She's a twenty one year old, college student, that is skinny and blond and perfect! As a guy, do you think I should be suspicious?

Such a liar! If Megan Fox walked into my room I would even do her and I'm not even a lesbian! :w00t: j/k

OK, no one responded, but let me tell you! I got the rollerblades and loaded my two toddlers in a double stroller and it is one heck of a workout. Thirty minutes and my face was beat red, heart rate was 162, and I was sweating like a pig. Not to mention it's fun and the kids loved it!

Yesterday I had this weird hiccup and then chest pain and was nauseous all day. Now today, I am really tired because I didn't sleep well and every time I yawn I get a sharp pain in the center of my chest. Anyone experience this?

I went to an easter bar b que three days after surgery and kept a drink with me at all times to make sure no one noticed I wasn't eating. I kept making sure everyone had what they needed and focused on feeding my kids. No one even asked if I had eaten. I even ate jello with the kids.

LMAO. Thank you. It has been a long time since I have looked in the mirror and was happy with myself. Hopefully, this journey will improve that self-image for me. :eek:

So I had this weird hiccup and then chest pain in the center of my chest. I hadn't eaten in hours, so it wasn't food. No I keep getting nausious for like 3-4 minutes then it goes away for 3-4 minutes and comes back, Over and over. I haven't vomited, but I feel like I have to. I called my surgeons office and they don't answer and don't return the phone call cause there unorganized. I am in the process of getting in to see a new WLS for follow up and when I called that office they said they can't direct me over the phone what to do because I haven't been seen by them yet. Any suggestions?

Thanks guy! You have all been very helpful. I have spoken to my husband about it again and hopefully things will improve. And thanks for the compliments about me being beautiful. I def need some work, but I once was. :cursing:

I was eating oatmeal today and now I have this pain in the middle of my chest the extends to under my ribs. I barely ate one of the small children's pouches of it and didn't have anything to drink within 30mins before and after. What's the pain from? Anyone else experience this?

Thanks girls. Fortunately, I know he isn't leasing the place she is living in. She knows the people that own the house behind the house we own, and she moved in with them. It is a young guy and his girlfriend, who are friends of hers. Which just makes me more suspicious because now she's litteraly a fence away from us. Their backyard faces ours. The girl is a total sweet heart and has a boyfriend who is a complete jerk. My husband is twenty seven and a really good lucking guy, so I'm afraid that she's taken an interest in him. I always joked about it with him before and called her his girlfriend and now this came up. I'm really nervous about it.

Thank you. I will try and talk to him about it again. I understand what you mean, and he probably doesn't realize it.

Congrats Jennifer! I bet you are really excited about finally pushing along the process! Keep us updated on how it goes?