Hey Dave I am right there with you. I am working through the process, and probably a couple mos out myself. I know for me that this is the only way I can lose weight, I have tried all the diets, have lost over 100lbs 3 times in my life but each time it came back with more... I am 48 now and it is affecting my health, and I have no choice. I wish I had been able to do this years ago. But hang in there, most everyone on here if you look at the percentages are happy with the results. My dear friend had it done 8 mos ago and told me honestly she would do it again. So it is the right choice, just a scary one.