I was going to try to keep it secret but I quickly realized keeping things quiet and secret in my big mouth family was just not going to happen.
I'm trying to get over the shame I feel about "HAVING" to have a surgery to lose weight. But it's not exactly a secret that I'm overweight. It's just the big pink elephant in the room no one is talking about.
It's kinda like the old high school joke about not eating in front of a boy. You know, "If I don't eat in front of him he won't notice I'm fat."