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xavier

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  1. xavier

    Hunger Issues

    I have definitely been hungry less with the band but when I am hungry I eat and I eat pretty much whatever I want (hello! if I had any discipline I wouldnt need a band!) anyway I can only eat tiny meals and that works for me.I dont exercise and I dont diet! The other possibility is that the person who said they were always hungry had head hunger and didnt know the difference. We all want to eat when we are not hungry (and, yes, sometimes I give in to it) but thats head hunger not physical hunger. To me, the best way to tell which is which is to think about an apple or a piece of cake. When you are truly physically hungry you will eat anything even an apple! When it is head hunger and the apple is right in front of you you will drive across town for the cake! Good luck!
  2. xavier

    never know when I can keep something down

    I think I see this a little differently than a lot of others so bear with me. I keep my band pretty tight and I like it and need it that way. Yes, it is variable day to day and at different times of the day very similar to the rings on my fingers. I can eat an egg and I can eat a veggie patty but not at the same time. That would be two different meals for me and that's ok with me. Also your band will loosen up as you lose weight because there is actually fat under it on your stomach. So if you can live with these outrageously tiny meals for a while, you will lose weight and eventually you will be able to eat both with no problem but you may plateau on your weight loss. To me that means time for another fill. I eat very tiny meals and actually quite often but I have never dieted or exercised and this has actually been relatively easy for me...good luck!
  3. cutest dog ever!

  4. xavier

    3 1/2 months progress

    You are doing fine! Try to be s nice to yourself as you are to others! A year from now it wont matter and you wont even remember exactly how many pounds you lost in what period of time! Just relax its not a race...
  5. xavier

    Something's STUCK!

    Papaya enzyme is with the vitamins in all the stores. Walmart and Walgreens for sure. Its chewable and it works pretty well. Sometimes you just have to yak it up...
  6. xavier

    TOTAL FILL ???

    I disagree with Acadia but I know the band is different for all of us. Yes, I'm less hungry and yes, I feel full longer. But the reason I have lost weight consistently without exercising or dieting is because I can't eat as much at one time. For me , its all about restriction! Sometimes I eat when I'm not hungry and sometimes I (try to ) overeat...but my band doesnt let me eat more than about 3/4 cup of food!
  7. I got a card in the mail yesterday for a weight loss program. It was weird to look at it and say to myself, "I don't need to lose weight." !

  8. xavier

    TOTAL FILL ???

    Definitely make an appointment to see your Doctor, not the nurse. If the Doc tells you that (I doubt it) go to someone else. I have a 10cc band and when I had 6.5 I had no restriction and lost no weight...I would have self payed for nothing... Good luck!
  9. Not sure who told you that about the breathing tube but it is not correct. For one thing if you need the breathing tube (endotracheal intubation) you are about to die without it and the only alternative is a hole in your neck (tracheotomy). You dont get intubated for fainting as long as you are still breathing which you would usually be. That tube is for someone who is not breathing. Your trachea (for breathing) is not your esophagus (for food ) so the tracheal tube wiil not harm your band. Also your band is on your stomach which is way lower down than where the breathing tube would go. All that said, more medical info for anyone taking care of you is always good so the bracelet or wallet card is probably all good.
  10. Hey...how are you doing these days???

  11. Hey ! How are you doing and how did your surgery turn out? I always check for your blog but you havent done one in a while...

  12. I have been a slow loser but looking back its mainly because of two things. One I didnt get a fill when I hit a plateau and I had two of them that lasted me nearly a year total. My fill doc was far away and I was thinking if I idont gain weight my retriction must be fine.Through this whole thing I have never gained more than two pounds which is great. Second I have never dieted, eaten diet food, or exercised. At a good level of restriction I always lost about five pounds a month which was good I think. It is more than two years since my band and I am at normal BMI and will probably continue to lose a little from here as my restriction is pretty tight. My first jeans were a Levis 505 size 16 short and now I wear the same 505s in a 6 short. Usually I wear an 8 everywhere else like at the Gap.
  13. Late to the thread but new to normal BMI and pretty big port bump now! Any ideas on cost of getting it replaced with a low profile? Thanks!
  14. xavier

    "You weren't that big?!?!"

    For SLPcat...you can tell them you are losing by eating less and that will be the truth. The rest is medical info only to be shared with people in your inner circle. To the thread starter I have found that witty comebacks just prolong a conversation I dont want to be having. If it is a comment (as opposed to a question) I usually nod as if I am thinking it over and dont actually respond. If it is an inappropriately personal question I take my response from the old Dear Abby, " Oh, I'm SURE you don't want me to answer something SOOOOO personal!" It really puts people in their place that they are out of line... Good luck, be careful who you tell, who ever said there are a lot of haters was dead on!
  15. xavier

    Accountability

    Great blog!!!
  16. Well I 'only' had to lose 70 to get to normal BMI so of course I had to self pay. I consider myself a low BMIer. I can eat anything or drink anything and I dont chew obsessively...BUT...I can only eat about a half a cup of anything at a time. My husband teases me that I eat so little I am a very cheap date! I can order a regular meal in a restaurant (come'on, girls we all know those portions are for an NFL linebacker, but we know we have eaten them!) and take the rest home and live on it for days! I LOVE my band because at the right fill level it absolutely prevents me from overeating. I have never dieted, counted calories, eaten diet food or low fat food, or exercised since I had the band, Hell, I had done all that many times before and failed or should I say succeeded in getting fatter everytime i lost then regained the weight?! I definitely eat and am more than happy with tiny portions but people do notice it when I eat with other people and I just had to get over that feeling of being judged. I didnt tell anyone except immediate fam that I am banded so I think my friends who see how little I eat think I am starving myself and maybe they even think I am judging them for eating the whole restaurant meal. I used to feel bad about that and would even overeat to the point of having to yak to try to cover how little I would eat...I dont do that any more I just dont care what people think! Getting to that point was probably the hardest thing about having the band. I went from a size 16 jeans to a size 6...nuff said! Juicy, good luck...thanks for friending me and dont listen to people who say its about following the rules and living at the gym (if we could do that...) its all about restriction...fight till you get your RIGHT level of restriction!! After that, its a (tiny) piece of cake!
  17. GOAL!!! Normal BMI at 145 pounds!!

  18. still 1 pound...grrrrr!

  19. 1 pound to normal BMI!

  20. xavier

    Tips for self-payers?

    This is a bad deal and I feel bad for you...BUT, statistically, the likelihood of bad events and bad health consequences is much higher for an obese person than for a person with normal weight and a lap band (me). I am a self payer who had a good outcome and got my health back. Lifelong obesity has a risk and so does having the band...I am just saying the risks are higher with the lifelong obesity... quote name='ForMyBoys' timestamp='1269472730' post='1418466'] Word of Caution to all self payers. I was a self pay over a year ago. My insurance would not cover my surgery. At 9 months post op I had 2 hospital stays, surgery, and 2 ER visits. My tubing was wrapped around an intestine. Then my tubing got stuck in scar tissue. I am now at 15 months and have ran test for the last week . I have an eroded esophagas and tubing stuck again. Guess what, if insurance doesn't pay for surgery then they don't pay for complications either. I've lost 95 pounds and my life savings along with it trying to save my life from the complications of this band. People just think about the initial cost because we don't want to believe that anything will go wrong. I would take back every pound I lost to have my health back. My advise is if insurance doesn't cover it than RUN. Don't get yourselves in my situation. Actually at this point the best advise I could give anyone is Don't Do It . Losing the weight is not worth losing your life to complications. Look into the complication rate of this surgery. I wish I had.
  21. How are you doing? The first month or so is no fun but hang in there!!

  22. Home from a month of travel (thankfully weight stayed the same), now 2 pounds from goal!!

  23. xavier

    Can't Wait to See If Approved, Health Going Down the Tubes

    I have also taken some fairly long and high dose courses of prednisone! Theres no diet that can take that off! You need the band or some other kind of weight loss surgery!
  24. You are starting about the same as me (215). I am 5'4" and was bursting a size 16Levis short but really was an 18. Now I am comfortable in the same jeans but they are 6S. In Gap or Calvin Klein I wear an 8, a little loose.

  25. xavier

    OMG!!! I AM LOSING MY HAIR!!!

    I'm sure you are just trying to help but I dont think you are supposed to sell or advertise stuff here. Also your article on aspartame has no references which means its just someone's opinion without the real science to back it up. Sorry but I speak the truth.

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