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dragonflylover

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About dragonflylover

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    Guru in Training
  • Birthday 08/31/1980

About Me

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    I'm am married and a mother of a five year old
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    Music, gardens
  • Occupation
    Mortgage Processor
  • State
    NY

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  1. Happy 32nd Birthday dragonflylover!

  2. I TOTALLY feel your pain! I am 9`1/2 weeks pregnant and all of a sudden I am having major issues with my band. I had residual slippage to begin with and only .5cc's in my band because I felt completely restricted with that.. Although I can still eat more than I should... i wasn't getting pain like always. Anyway.. yesterday I vomitted while brushing my teeth / tongue.. thanks to pregnancy... and when I ate a few hrs later I had MAJOR MAJOR issues with pain in the lapband area. I honestly didn't know if it was lapband related or gallstones.. or something else! I ended up going to the ER last night and the sono showed my organs were all good.. so we basically are assuming its lapband related. I am assuming I slipped it even more after I vomitted yesterday. Today I am causiously eating mushy foods.. I have NO appetite and when I think of food I get nauseated.. I HAVE to force myself to eat because of being prego and this kid makes me nauseous if i do not eat every 2 hrs! I have had NOTHING but issues with my band. Oh i forgot to mention my port is completely flipped and I can't even get the .5cc's out!!!!! I CANNOT wait to have this band removed after pregnancy and go back to weight watchers where i can eat healthy foods and not be in pain!!! sorry for the vent.. i am beyond frustrated.. this is my second pregnancy and I feel like i am having more issues this time around because the lapband.. or it's contributing to issues!!
  3. I was banded back Nov 2009.. I have lost maybe 25 lbs total. and most of that was on my own completely. I cannot eat healthy foods... i get a lot of pain and often stuck where I have to vomit because hours go by and I am still in pain. I currently have residual slippage according to my new Dr. I am also 8 weeks pregnant and went to dr. for fluid removal. She stuck me 6 times and was bending needles.. turns out my port now flipped... I can't really do anything about it since i am prego.. I am just so done with this thing. It hasn't helped me one bit. It has prohibited eating healthy and I had better success on weight watchers. Anyone else going through the same issues?
  4. dragonflylover

    Is this pain band related?

    Hi all, I am having pretty moderate back pain on my left side mid-upper back, possible close to the middle of my back. Its becoming worse and radiating so I can't tell. This morning before the pain i noticed upper mid stomach pain..like dull achy pain causing nausea. Could this be related to my band? right now I feel like I am salivating excessively.. almost bubbly. I may need to go to the hospital if it gets worse.. i dont know whether to call lapband dr, or just go to regular dr.. ugh!
  5. Hey all, So husband and I decided to go for it and try for our 2nd. Period is due tomorrow and i do have classic symptoms of PMS / early pregnany. Yesterday i tried eating pizza and had 1/2 slice that cause tremendous amount of pain. like being stabbed in the upper stomach. I felt like my stomach was contracting and was also hard to breath a little bit. after finally getting it all out i felt some relief. But the next day (today) my stomach just doesn't feel right. i feel like i was punched and the dull achy pain that goes through to my back just wont go away. I am afriad to eat solids.. even soup! but i have to. I am pretty sure i am preggers but my question is, could this be early pregnancy symptoms or band related? i didn't have ANY sickness with my daughter. thanks guys!
  6. dragonflylover

    worst day of my life...

    I am so sorry to hear your are having such a hard time. In times like these, all I can ever do is remind myself that its meant to be this way right now. In the end it will all work out just stay positive and be the best wife you can be for your hubby.. he's going to need your strength.. your a team.. stay focused, keep fighting!! sometime miracles happen and also dr' can be wrong..some don't take the time.. just do all your research and I wish you the best of luck. "everything happens for a reason" -Delia
  7. dragonflylover

    Should I wait or not?

    Hello, I have to say, I am some what in the same situation as you. My husband and I decided just last night we are going to go for it! my situation is a little different. we have a 6 yr old right now. It will most definitely be like starting over again for us. We are both very anxious people when it comes to looking forward into the future and what to expect. I realized something lately, I'm 30 now, i don't know if it's a part of me growing up a bit.. i am definitely still in a 20's mind set... but.. I think it's time to live life as an adult. When we got prego with our daughter we were dating just 3 mths, no house, living with parents, lost jobs, really struggled. but in that time we got back on our feet.. bought a house even!!! its not the most ideal area, but it's affordable.. not in immediate danger and I am accepting what we have and how far we really came.. all with a child. and a spoiled one!! So, after years of worrying and waiting for the "right time" we come to realize.. the right time will never happen.. and you always find a way to make it work once put in the situation.. financially we should probably not have a kid at this moment. but.. i can't see our finances changing much in the near future and I am getting older..more risks. so my theory is, we work as a team and make it happen..whatever it takes. good luck with your decision... I am hoping to be prego within a few weeks!! ohh and I am def.. NOT at my ideal weight either.. I will do my best to continue to eat better while prego. -Delia
  8. dragonflylover

    Frustrated!!

    thanks.. good luck with your band and your journey.. not everyone is the same so you might have a great experience.. i hope thats the case for you..
  9. dragonflylover

    Frustrated!!

    I am so back and forth with this thing. my husband is almost begging for me to take it out. this is where i am at so far. Lost only 25-30 lbs in 1 yr. granted the first 10 mths i was not exercising, and not 100% on a diet. BUT... i was over restricted for several months and could barley eat anway.. why i didn't lose more is a mystery to me. Recently i went to a new fill dr who has better technology... After drinking that chalk crap, she could see it moving through my esopeagus (SP?) and into the pouch.. which was streched and sagging over the band. at that point she removed Fluid and left me with .50cc's for 1 month. I went back and drank that crap again.. and she put in 2.00cc's which gave me a total of 2.5cc's and according to this XRAY machine i was fully restricted. I also have a second small pouch and residual band slippage. Lately i can eat everything and anything i want to. apparently i need more restriction.. BUT the xray machine showed me perfectly restricted.. i dont get it.. it hasn't even been a month since this fill and i am now afraid that i am once again stretching my pouch.. i do not have pain this time around.. it's almost like not having a band. it costs me $80 per visit so i can't constantly have this ting checked out. IDK what to do.. i am becoming beyond frustrated and down about myself. i am losing my esteem, drive and am depressed.... i am still working out which seems to be the only thing maintaining the loss... but i am still not losing. do i really need to starve myself?!?!?!? I dont feel like I am going way overboard with food.. I know if i didn't have the band i would eat 2X the amt i currently do. I feel like being thin is just not meant to be for me. so discouraged.
  10. Still lots of work needed.. this is my best before pic.. around 250. recent pic 226.
  11. hey guys, it's been a while since i updated.. so, i finally got my insurance back in september. I saw a new fill Dr closer to home and with better technology. This Dr. (Dr. Mehta) has an x-ray machine that can see inside in real time. I had to drink that chalky crap and we saw the fluids go through my system.. it got to my pouch and filled up the pouch, drained some..then some stayed in the bottom of the pouch which appeared to be stretched and sagging over the band. So Dr. ended up removing the 5CC's i had and put me liquids for 5 days so the pouch can shrink. well this all took place mid october so now i am back to eating normal food. Now, i see the difference. I can eat so much more, and I get hungry a lot more as well.. I have to go back in a few weeks for a followup and hope I get my restriction back. Dr. couldn't tell if I stretched or slipped. i don't know what to expect in a few weeks.. but i do know this is very hard to control amounts... the good news is, I am still going to the gym..so I am not gaining back.. :thumbup: Has this happen to anyone? thanks!
  12. dragonflylover

    Stress and anxiety medicine

    Hello, I am sorry to hear about your recent seperation.. i am a true believer in "everything happens for a reason" so hang in there.. it will all work out for the best.. but i understand fully the hurt... I have been taking Prozac for years now... prior to banding, and currently. It comes in a capsule so i usually open it and mix the powder in some low fat yogurt.. it NEVER bothered my stomach and prozac has worked great for me and everyone else i know.. zoloft was not so good for me.. it magnified my anxiety and panic... good luck!
  13. dragonflylover

    How often do you exercise

    6x a week at the gym.. and sundays i usually clean the house which is another form of workout. unfortunately i don't see much scale results.. nor are my pants falling off yet. BUT i have only been doing this for 3 weeks now and yes, i do mainly cardio fat burn.. so we'll see!
  14. Hey everyone, So the only way i could fit the gym in to my busy life was to go on my lunch breaks. luckly for me, they built a brand new lucille roberts about a mile from my job. so my new routine is.. 1pm i start on the elliptical and set it for weight loss program.. i put my weight and age and it automatically sets the program for 30 min. basically i am doing intervals of level 1 for 6 min, then level 8 for 6 min. my heart rate is averaged at 165 which according to the machine is above fat burning and in peak to high mode. i usually start off at a good pace.. not pushing or fast.. then after the 6 min the resistance changes to 8 and this is where i push and go faster.. i do feel the burn, i am sweating, and pretty much out of breath no matter how much i control my breathing. is this good? i know this means my heart rate is up and i am in fat burning mode. but should i push? or go steady throughout the whole interval changes? after the 30 min i move to the weight machines.. i do inner and outer thigh, flys, abs, and deltoids?? i think it is.. here is my issue with the machines.. i heard less weight more reps is for toning, / fat burn.. more weight is to bulk up. BUT... if i use less weights on the abs for example.. i dont feel a burn, i dont feel like i worked the muscle.. therefore i increase the weight to 55 lbs and i have to really focus on isolating the muscle. once i am done with my workout.. i go back to the office and eat my lunch. hoping that this is the best time because my metabolism has the extra boost... my questions are.. am i better off pacing the elliptical or pushing myself to the point of pass out? should i stick to less weights even if i am not feeling a burn? and, is it best to eat lunch before or after a workout? i am just trying to get the most out of my workouts and make sure i am getting them done right in the end. ohh i forgot to mention that i workout during lunch for 1 hr 5 days a week. and on saturday morning i take the kick boxing class then followed by total body workout..(which is not cardio..but more muscle building and strengthening). thanks!
  15. dragonflylover

    Treadmill VS Elliptical

    Elliptical- i can actually go 3+ miles without almost passing out..plus i sweat A LOT more and is much easier on the joints and boobs.. hahah

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