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Glad to hear you're doing well Shirley! We missed you! Turner I think you are right on track. I've been averaging about 10lbs a month too, without exercising so I know kicking it up a notch in that area will definitely help. JDru - congrats on almost making it to the 180's! lol. You'll get there soon. I won't make my Valentine's Day challenge either, but I like having the challenges to keep us focused.

Soooo Cascadian, do you like women in their 30's? haha - just teasing you. Sort of. lol. I understand completely what you said, and have to say that I agree with a lot of it. I'm glad you posted - we need more testosterone around here! I hope you continue to visit us and share you perspective with us. Welcome dibaby! We look forward to your posts! So I had date #1 last night. We had been talking all week on the phone, so I knew we'd have a good time, which we did. He brought me flowers (which I haven't gotten in 3 years!!), actually listened to the previous conversations we had on the phone, and admitted he was so excited for last night that he couldn't sleep the night before. He was so nice and sweet, and I felt very comfortable with him, like I had known him for years. The down side - he was a bad dresser. Black jeans and black sneakers...not my style. That, and when we went to dinner he kind of held his fork like a little kid. The whole way home I berrated myself about being too picky and that this is why I am single. But on the other hand I don't want to settle. I deserve the whole package. Right now I'm leaning towards going out another time and seeing how that goes. What do you guys think? Date #2 is tonight - I'll post tomorrow and let you know how things go with this guy.

So my friends, I cannot believe what a crazy week this has been. I have gone from zero men activity to 6 guys actively pursuing me. How quickly things change! lol. I have that date tomorrow night, another one for Saturday (which I filled after another guy had to cancel), and then 3 other guys who are calling and looking to meet. That's the thing about Match - it's either feast or famine. Anyway, I got a kick out of this and though you girls would too. Wish me luck!!

Congratulations La Madam! What an accomplishment!!

haha Jimboss! I've never heard of that kind of a side effect from sweets but hey - I wouldn't be complaining! lol

Oh Joan I'm so sorry! But I think it's great that they found this potential problem and are going to take care of it. Your health is what's important. The band may be delayed a little bit, but it's most important to get yourself healthy first! Keep your chin up.

Puddin girl, you look SKINNY!!! And HOT!! Good for you!

Oops forgot to congratulate Kelsey!! You'll do GREAT!

Deb I had asked Sherry if she wanted to come to dinner with us and she said yes. Once we figure out when and where, we can always post to see if anyone else wants to join too. Hey Dez - great news on the fertility doc! That is awesome!! I am very excited for you. I tend to snack at night too. It's hard to break those old habits, that's for sure. I just flew in January and had no problems whatsoever. I loved that the seatbelt fit better too! I think those favors sound great for your mom's party. Oh, and I'm psyched that you''ll be going to the reunion! It will be great to see you again!

LMAO Sherry, that is a great story! lol By the way....did everyone see Sherry's new weight??? 200!! Just a mere 10th of a pound away from Onderland. Yay!!!!!!!

Congrats timeforchange! Dr Jones and his staff are great! Best of luck with your surgery! I was just in today to see Kelly for my 4 month follow up. I lost an average of 2lbs a week since I was in last, so they were very happy. I feel like I could have done a better job, but isn't that always the way?? I saw Michelle today Deb and mentioned that we were planning on grabbing dinner while you were down this way in a couple of weeks. They think it's so cute that we're friends form the website. lol. Sherry and I also RSVP'd for the reunion in March. Hopefully some of you guys will go as well so we catch up again! John - how's that liquid diet going??? Hope everyone is doing well - Dez, Nana, KayDot, and anyone else I've missed.

Awwww...you guys are too kind to me. I haven't really been feeling all that hot about myself lately. Not sure if it's being sick, the hair falling out, or just my mind playing tricks on me. Yes I've lost 40 lbs, but don't always see it when I look in the mirror. I seemed to have lost my mojo! haha

Threebeauties I don't blame you for being frustrated. It would bother me too. But in a way I think it's nice because he loves you unconditionally and has probably always seen you to be as beautiful as you now feel.

Sorry to hear the date didn't go well TexasRose. I think what's important to focus on is that he wasn't YOUR type. I know personally I have been guilty of worrying more if someone likes me, before I even figure out if I really like them. I'm done with that now. I'm being picky. I deserve it, and so do you! He sounds like a loser and definitely doesn't deserve someone as wonderful as you!

Happy Birthday Cass! It's today, right? And Happy early B-day to Mandy. I'm a Feb baby too! And in good company! :confused: I was away this weekend for a convention for my charity group. i didn't want to go because I was tired, but I had a lot of fun! My cough is still hanging on, and I may end up going back to the docs this week. We'll see I guess. I've read all the posts, but just don't have the energy for personals. Next time! I still have to clean and cook (hear ya Sherry!). My family invited themselves over for the Superbowl. I know I'm going to regret my TV purchase! lol I took a new pic with my cell phone this weekend. Thought I'd post for Beanie since I think she asked back when. For some reason all the pics I take with my cell phone make me look like I have a huge nose! Go figure. So here's what I look like friends:

Hey everyone! Just wanted to check in for the Valentine's Day challenege. I'm down 9.5 lbs, which leaves me 5.5 lbs to lose within the next 10 days. Not sure that I'll get there, but I know I will break the 10 lb barrier! Hope everyone is doing well on their challenge!

Thanks for the input everyone. The game is next Friday, and we actually spoke on the phone tonight and got along well. We found out that we graduated from the same university, the same year. How funny! Granted it was a HUGE school so we never knew each other existed. lol. We also found out that we have the same numbers for our Superbowl Squares tomorrow night. Colts 3, Bears 0. It must be fate! KIDDING!!! But I do think it's ironic. I'll definitely keep you guys updated. I'm just happy I'll have some stories to share!!!

Looks great Deb!!!! You're a computer whiz now!

Cootie I agree with what JDru had to say. You should go back to the doctors and ask for more of a fill, and then also see if you can find someone to talk about your problems with. Life throws you curveballs sometimes and now that we're banded we need to find other ways to deal with our emotions besides food. It's not easy, but we need to try. bckeye - I am losing a lot of hair and actually decided to cut my hair because of it. When I wash my hair, my hands are completely intertwined with hair. It's scares me, but from what I've read it will stop and it will grow back. Let's hope!! Anyone else losing hair?? Ok, and I am sooooo jealous of you guys with your fills! I have 1.5cc's and can't get more until the end of March according to my doc.

I'm not into long hair on guys either, but definitely like the baldies. Besides, men lose their hair because of too much testosterone and you know what that means....... :confused: So I've been talking to this guy on Match for about a week, and he wanted to meet up this weekend but I'm booked. I suggested maybe next weekend instead, so he invited me to go to a Celtics game with him on Friday night. So my question is, should I go??? I'm just worried that it will be a long time to be stuck with him if there's no attraction. lol. What do you guys think?

Hey everyone! I've been trying to avoid this thread because of all this cake talk. hahaha! Just kidding! For those of you who've asked - the new place is great! I'm settling in a bit more every day. Unfortunately my bronchitis is not getting any better. I saw the Doc again on Monday and was put on another 10 days of antibiotics and a steriod inhaler. I had a coughing fit so bad this morning that I either bruised or fractured a rib. I can't take a deep breath without immense pain and it feels like someone is stabbing me when I cough. I sure do know how to get sick, huh?! lol. Oh well, what can you do?! Besides, as we saw today with Kat's post, it can always be worse. Well I think I'm off to bed early tonight. I'm going to take some nyquil (actually tylenol's brand) to see if that helps me sleep any better. Hugs to you all!

I hear ya puddin. They're only good for so long if they can't hold a decent conversation.

Great joke KristiB! haha Sorry the date wasn't a love connection, but at least you're getting out there! Congrats on being in a size 16 - that is so GREAT! I just love dropping sizes, it's the best!

Whatever happened with Scott? I thought he was so cute!

Yeah!!!! There you are! You can also select "edit avatar" and down the bottom of the screen choose to upload an image. That will put your picture up by your name.