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how are u feeling otherwise poconomom? ummm also what is a maxi dress? amy

wow I guess i've been away from this thread for a while. I most certainly would have defended myself against PG. First I have to say that I beleive whole heartedly that people are born gay. I do not beleive that anyone would choose to be treated as a sub species... (which sadly I think still happens in this world) I think her interpretation of the bible is way off. I think people forget that many can read the same passage in the bible and walk away with many different ideas as far as the meaning. I am Jewish and in my upbringing we were taught to love, to be the best person u can, to respect others and be tolerent. I was never told that G*D would love me less if I were gay. I think there are many people of the cloth that do not view homosexuality as a sin, nor do they interpret the bible as saying so. I think PG and many others interpret the bible to suit their bigitry and hate and intollerance. I love my children... and if as they grow they realize that they are gay, I will love them, and support them in any way I can. hate is ugly as we can all see and testify to. amy

I was also banded on march 20th. I haven't gotten a fill and don't want one at this time. I have good restriction... I eat 4oz of food at a time and stay full for between 3-4 hours. I don;t eliminate any food that I like, but have mostly stayed low carb. I have had pizza, and i don't feel guilty for anything i eat. I also am one of the lucky ones who doesn't have any problem with any foods (knock on wood). I think if u are hungry often and can eat bigger portions a fill will probably be the answer. my best friend got the band, and it took him two years to find his sweet spot. everyone is different. I think u really have to listen to what your body is telling u. how has the weight loss been for u all since surg?? at firat I was losing like crazy and now im down to about 1-3lbs a week. Love to hear from u all! amy

this is a wonderful thread... I've read it from start to finish, and I would love to hear more stories! keep em coming!

u guys r awsome... just wanted to let u know that im losing again thank goodness!!!

ive never posted on this thread tina, but ive been reading it, and I have to say u , from what I have read, are a very strong woman. I know it must have been horrifing seeing and hearing what u did, especially as a single lady with children. I just know that this is just another block in the road for u that u will surely overcome. I wish u lots of luck and pray that u are in your home safe and sound with your children soon. amy

thanks all, it a really annoying problem!! i am very short (5') so its hard to find jeans that are low on me lol. my 20s are too big and the 18s fit but then i have my port issue! uggh such a pain in the port! lol amy

WOOOHOOOO!!! its mine............

Right on lellow!!!

i just think its really sad that all people are still not getting equal rights. why is it such a problem to some people if two homosexuals get married. they make vows to one another... some do so in a church or temple before G*D... they get married in every sense of the word. I for one beleive G*D sees it as a holy union the same as with a heterosexual couple. My best friend is gay, and i want for him all the rights that i enjoy as a heterosexual woman. I want him to fall in love, get married, have children if he chooses to. i truely beleive in a G*D who created us as equal, and treats us as equals, loves us as equals. I feel sad for those who beleive in an intolerent, hateful G*D. amy

ashley, I too get exhausted when I exercise, i need a nap after sometimes! im so glad to know that it takes a while before you start getting energy from it, i too thought i was doing something wrong lol. i'll be interrested to follow this thread to see what others have to say. I haven't been cleared for vigerous exercise yet, so for now I'll stick to walking! good luck amy

i was told to stay away from anything with cabonation :smile2: so sad as I love a good beer every now and then. sniff sniff.. amy

I don't think so ladies! heeheehee

i wish her lots of luck. she must be going through alot. :thumbup:

yeah, id call right away! good luck, amy

i know how you feel! I am 5 weeks post op and I too still have sorness around my port when I do too much. I find that I forget about my surgury bc most of the time it doesn't hurt, but as soon as I do something strenuous... boom the soreness is totally there! good luck! amy

i can't wait to exercise, but i haven't gotten clearance from my doc. But thank you so much! yeah it totally has to or I'll go crazy!!! amy

im baacckkk!! here to win it :thumbup:

thanks cathy i have restriction without a fill... if I only eat 4 oz at a time do you think I'll need a fill? when I eat more than that I feel nauseas. what do u think? amy

thanks ladies, i do know Im not getting enough water, so im gonna rev it up! it is so frustrating, but I'll try and calm down. It's just I was SOOOOO excited with such a great loss, and im just ready for some more :thumbup: i see your almost to goal Kelin! conrats, what an accomplishment. How long did it take to reach your goal? thanks again ladies and any other tips you have are greatly appreciated!!! Amy

I was just wondering the same thing. Ive been banded almost 5 weeks and lost 15 the first month and now ive gone up and dowm the same lb for a week now. I can't exercise for another week, but ive been eating well and can only eat 4 oz at a time. I don't feel like I need a feel since I can only eat 4 oz. Please HELP!!!!

I have been banded for a month now... I remember thinking before surg. that i would mourn food... and i don't at all bc i am able to eat what i like in proper portions. I eat 4oz of food at a time and i am satisfied for 3-4 hours. it is awsome. Ive lost 15 since surg. and 21 total. I don't even think i'll need a fill for awhile. I wish everyone lots of luck and i hope you all lose a ton of weight!! amy

good luck thin... I am so happy for u! I can't wait to hear how you are doing!! keep us posted! amy

I read the article, and i felt so bad for her. Its bad enough to be obcessed with losing weight, but to have the extra pressure of the whole world watching u... uggg that has to suck. The poor thing feels shame for having a normal body after a baby. Im glad i have the band and won't ever yo-yo diet ever again. amy