I found out in 2001. I also suffer from infertility, but thanks to a wonderful RE I found I now have 2 beautiful little boys. Don't get discouraged, it can happen.
I dont know how this site is about posting other sites, but have you ever checked out soulcysters.net? It is a site created by someone with pcos and there is a vast amount of information there. And tons of woman to help with any questions. If it wasnt for that site, I doubt I would have been able to be so knowledgable about ttc. I use the same name over there.
I have not been banded yet. I went to my first consult yesterday and I go tomorrow for my psych eval and meeting with the dietician. My insurance covers it and they told me they are one of the better ones. I was told I should be able to get banded around May/June.