Thanks Sammee, its good to know that there is support out there. I live in a small town which can be great, but also has its disadvantages if you dont want things to get around. I suppose that i'm hoping that i'll be successful before i say anything.It also worries me that although the morbitity rate is very low,i'm risking my health by having the surgery,even though i'm risking my health by not.Anyway thanks again i hope to talk to you all frequently, and maybe eventually i'll be able to help someone myself!