I want to get pregnant next year 2010 after i get some weight off of me, i have some health issue's and my weight now is 355 pounds. I have two children now, but i got married in 2005 and my husband has no birth children of his own. He loves our two children our two boys ages 18 and 19, and the kids love there step-dad. I want to try for my girl. Wish us luck i get banded on March 16,09.