:cursing: Hey, so glad to find ya'll? Can I pleeeeaaaase join yall? Quick version of my story. I am 5 6. I had surgery October 20, 2008. I began at 225 prior to the pre-op. I am now at 210. My goal is 140. But, I have only lost 15 lbs. I read on the main talk area that people that had surgery in October have lost on average about 30 pounds. I try to stay patient but HEEEELLLPPPP :cursing:. I do not want to be a failure. I was a cash pay and that is sooo much money. I have a 10cc band and have had 3 fills which puts me at 6.8cc's. I think last tuesday (my 3rd fill) I have maybe reached my "sweet spot" everybody talks about. Please give me yalls input.