I am a mom of a very energetic 3 year old boy. I have arthritis bad in my hips and lower back, I can't keep up or play with him.. my husband and I have been struggling to have a second child because of my weight causing me to be irregular. I am scared to make the call but I know it's time. I am in need of a mentor someone to walk me through it and support me. I don't get a lot of family support as im the only (big boned sibling). My husband doesn't understand so I am definitely feeling alone in this. I will be getting the surgery done at OHSU in Oregon if all goes well.