Ok, honesty time i guess. this is tough to say but the rudesst yet sadest things was when my ex-fiance (RIP) told me he didnt want to sex with me because i was too fat. i used to tell him that he was the same weight as me but he said it didnt matter so I proceeded to lose 132 lbs. then he did something horrific, landed in jail, and i gained all the weight back. That was so hard to share. :thumbup: