Since you have the support of a group pre-op and post you should do fine. I feel the key is support. For me, I had the same options with structured monthly support from my physician and his team(nutritionist, psychologist, etc.) this made things much easier. My physician, Dr. Raury O'Connell(new orleans) does not give you any options when it pertains to support groups--they are mandatory. I believe it is crucial for you to participate in them because you have the opportunity to discuss your concerns, issues, etc. with others who have been through the procedure and you are talking to and seeing for yourself "real people" and not testimonies from actors.