Ok, #1 you are not old. It is now Dec 31, and I am just now reading this, so by now you have had your surgery. You will not fail, the lap band is a very useful tool. I was banded Oct 28, and have lost 30 pounds, It amazes me everytime I try on clothes I haven't been able to wear, and this is just the beginning. I have all the same hobbies you do, but gardening. I am still new at this myself, but you can give me a holler anytime. Happy New Year, and here's to a new you!:laugh: Linda 11. ps I have 10 grandkids, too.