Thanks for your reply- I appreciate what u had to say. I truly do recognize (having been in the medical profession myself) that not everyones weight is a result of over eating, wrong food choices and not working out. However, it's safe to say those are the most common reasons, and they certainly have been mine and everyone else I know.
I guess i am trying to work out in my mind, how, if i can't do it now, am i going to be able to do it after the surgery? And i'm also trying to rationalize (to myself primarily) the risks associated with the surgery and beyond vs not being able to eat less/better and move more.
However, the bottom line is that I am just wanting to make sure that i'm not acting out of desperation and not considering the reality of what this is about.
Thanks again for your perspective and I'm glad to hear that it worked out well for you!
J.